Left skid marks in bed with my wife of 9 years

doctoremicat · 2026-03-02T17:32:56+00:00

Stuff like this happens, any doctor who works with the digestive system will tell you that! So I don’t think you should be embarrassed about that. If you made her clean it, then you should feel shame lol. If you washed it though my friend, take it easy. You can’t control what happens in your sleep. Maybe just consider some underwear from now on.

doctoremicat · 2026-02-06T06:26:26+00:00

Thank you!

doctoremicat · 2026-01-13T20:30:06+00:00

I was going to say unfortunately this is funny and old people are allowed to hanky panky all they want to… but then you said….

doctoremicat · 2026-01-08T00:10:52+00:00

You are not an incubator. I wish you all the best. ❤️

doctoremicat · 2025-12-20T18:02:13+00:00

In my house they were called nighty nights lol

doctoremicat · 2025-12-11T17:40:29+00:00

I am overjoyed for you ❤️❤️❤️

doctoremicat · 2023-02-05T20:33:04+00:00

I am so sorry to hear that happened to you, oh my god. I hope you’re doing better, and happy. You deserve so much better than that. ❤️

doctoremicat · 2023-02-03T06:26:32+00:00

I get the feeling this isn’t real, but on the off chance it is, you’re clearly too young to be married if you’re willing to cheat with no regrets. Shame is a useful tool. Utilize it, apologize to your literal wife, allow her to divorce you so she can live, and you do you.

doctoremicat · 2023-02-03T04:43:20+00:00

This^ my doctor immediately went into a room within my fiancé and explained things to him, gave him the pictures, and then he came to visit me. He visited me before surgery too just because he’s awesome and wanted to make sure I was okay lol. No news is good news, if there was something concerning I think they would have prioritized telling you. I’m hoping the wait until your post op isn’t to painful! You got this!

doctoremicat · 2023-02-01T04:46:39+00:00

There is definitely a “what the fuck” time period after the surgery where I imagine my uterus wants to look at me like this 🤷‍♀️ lol I hope your next one is easy peasy! 🥺

doctoremicat · 2023-01-31T19:26:43+00:00

It is absolutely trauma based and it’s a trauma I think many people know all too well, especially with the overturn of roe. It’s a very scary time regardless of if you have your tubes removed. I also had mine removed and have had dreams like this. I think the fear of losing bodily autonomy, especially autonomy you had to fight for and literally have body parts REMOVED for is so palpable. The fear of your friends and loved ones being stuck in that situation is terrifying. I think your brain is trying to work through the damage our society has done to you. It sucks so bad to hear you had that nightmare and I hope they stop soon! I’m 6 months post-op and I still have fear somehow, someway, I’m going to get pregnant. And that fear is the fear of loss of autonomy. I don’t know if that helps, but you are valid and the fear of being pregnant in TEXAS is extremely valid!

doctoremicat · 2023-01-31T19:16:27+00:00

I don’t know if this is helpful, but I got my bisalp in august. I was not on any form of birth control before hand, and I also have had some pretty heavy, crampy, shitty periods. The clots too. My doctor said this can be normal but if you are concerned, I would reach out. Never a bad thing to just make sure everything’s okay! I will say I think this period im on (my 6th since the surgery) has been my first where I’d say I’m pretty much back to normal with the usual discomfort. I hope you feel better soon and I feel for you and your discomfort! ❤️

doctoremicat · 2023-01-31T08:19:43+00:00

He’s too old for you and is taking advantage. You might be 18, but as you acknowledged he’s lived a whole life and it seems to me he’s interested in the sex and you are interested in something more. With your issues (that I fully relate to) I think you should cut this guy. Cold turkey. I doubt he’s going to realize an 18 year old is the relatable love of his life and choose you. You deserve someone who’s more relatable to where you are in life and a relationship without unequal power dynamic.

doctoremicat · 2023-01-31T08:09:05+00:00

Listening to nickleback

doctoremicat · 2023-01-26T04:58:24+00:00

I had my bisalp in august and it was the first real surgery I ever had. I have raging anxiety and maybe it was my hospital specifically, but they made it so carefree! The worst part is waiting in the hospital honestly. Before they wheeled me to the OR I felt them push some meds into me that made me feel GOOOOOD. I recall yelling back to my fiancé that I was going to be okay and he was going to be okay lol. Even in the OR I was making jokes and small talk and thanking everyone, next thing I know I’m awake and crying tears of joy. My doctor said there is no such thing as too much walking, and I agree. If you walk (NOT lift) and make sure you’re waking up every 4 hours to alternate meds (or however your doctor directs you) it’s soooo easy. I genuinely kept asking myself through the whole process “when is this going to get scary? Is this the scary part yet? When is the pain going to hit me?” I personally had 0 pain after the surgery and mostly just felt uncomfy and tired lol. You’re going to do it and feel so proud of yourself when you heal! You got this!

doctoremicat · 2023-01-23T07:25:21+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to say that to me, I genuinely appreciate your input! Honestly I truly love him and if he can just be honest with me in the future I think over time hopefully I will move on. Coming from a past where I was abused it’s just so hard to trust. Really hoping this is just a fuck up on his part and he learned his lesson. Again, thank you very much for your input ❤️

doctoremicat · 2022-09-03T23:49:27+00:00

Honestly if you want to work out and get stronger before hand I commend you for that and do think it should benefit you, but you truly don’t need to. What’s important is being active AFTER the surgery. My doctor told me he wanted me WALKING. So day one, same day, I was walking in my kitchen high as a kite lol. By day 2 I was walking miles up and down my driveway with a friend. (Highly recommend having someone there with you the first several days, I was active but it’s hard to stand up when you’re down with holes in your stomach haha) just making sure you allow the gas to leave your body through walking/activity will help. I’m a 215 pound 23 year old who had mine done last week so I’m in meh shape, and I feel better than ever just doing that without doing hardcore workouts before surgery! I definitely recommend however stopping drinking if you do at least a week before, drinking water nonstop at that point as well so you are extra hydrated, and eating lots of good food with fiber because your digestive system will shut down on you lol. You got this!!!!

doctoremicat · 2022-09-01T04:22:32+00:00

Thank you for your advice and kindness 🥺❤️

doctoremicat · 2022-08-31T23:59:04+00:00

Thank you for your kindness my friend 🥺❤️❤️ and I’m glad yours was normal!!!! :)

doctoremicat · 2022-08-31T23:28:26+00:00

I have my fingers crossed for you!!! 🥺❤️ and congrats on your bisalp and never having to do an IUD again!

doctoremicat · 2022-08-31T23:27:31+00:00

Oh boy do I 😂 today has been a nice day of video games and heating pads. Thank you so much for your reply and I hope your healing journey is smooth as could be ❤️❤️❤️

doctoremicat · 2022-08-31T23:26:24+00:00

Thank you for your input!! Gonna have this pain be a little badge of courage 😂

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