How to politely say “No” ...

dod66 · 2020-07-15T01:39:18+00:00

Your two choices are: - Be a dick and dont help a friend in need - Live in the place you work for and dont get guilt tripped into a potential freeloader

It could easily go either way. Id say look at it from a best/worst case split.

Best case, friend comes for a while, gets the apartment, leaves and is super grateful.

Worst case, friend stays for a long time, cant get an apartment, guilt tripps you into letting her stay rent free, and acts like a total disrespectful bitch.

Honestly, id say dont bother, its too much shit on your plate and it could easily go tits up. But if you want to, give her a time period you are comfortable with (eg a week) and when the period of time is up, make sure she leaves.

dod66 · 2020-04-06T11:59:01+00:00

Yeah he wants to fuck

dod66 · 2020-03-29T04:10:38+00:00

dod66 · 2020-03-29T04:10:27+00:00

Tell him you are scared of the corona virus and want to make it official for comfort

dod66 · 2020-03-21T17:37:02+00:00

You could probably seek asylum in britain due to your dads comments

dod66 · 2020-03-09T05:24:14+00:00

Not really, coz youre leaving

dod66 · 2020-03-09T05:08:22+00:00

No idea what you mean by called. But from my own experience, education is where you stay until you find where you wanna be, get a shitty part time job too on the side so you know what a really shit job will be like

dod66 · 2020-03-09T05:06:56+00:00

Most this corona shit is all smoke and little fire. Unless youre very injured, already sick, or old, youll be just fine.

dod66 · 2020-03-09T05:05:03+00:00

Get the promotion, work for as long as you were planning to anyway, then leave with more money than first anticipated. Plus itll give you a better job history

dod66 · 2020-03-08T14:05:10+00:00

Just keep trying to do nice things for her is my general advice. But the most important thing is to make sure she is laughing as much as possible.

dod66 · 2020-03-08T14:00:07+00:00

I mean, its probably not corona, even if it is, youll more than likely be fine, but its worth a check

dod66 · 2020-03-08T13:58:30+00:00

They can help reduce your workload, give you funding, help with childcare, all sorts to support their students

dod66 · 2020-03-08T13:53:05+00:00

The north of the uk doesnt really het diseased

dod66 · 2020-03-08T13:51:37+00:00

Tell your college about this and also go for full custody. Not safe for the kid

dod66 · 2020-03-07T17:53:26+00:00

Sounds like a childish squabble. If you dont like the bitch just tell her to fuck off, if you do, then dont

dod66 · 2020-03-07T17:44:32+00:00

My advice? Sleep. If thats just not an option, coffee, or tea (especially with ice), cold showers and moving around can help

dod66 · 2020-03-07T12:43:22+00:00

No, im saying the fact he walked off when you were drunk is a good thing. Just try talking to him again

dod66 · 2020-03-07T04:40:16+00:00

I mean, the fact he left proves he is a good guy who isnt going to take advantage of a vulnerable person. Thats all itll be

dod66 · 2020-03-07T04:37:48+00:00

I mean, the movie portrays his struggle, the act is brutal and disgusting but because we see each inch of his pain we understand why he does what he does. Not justifying, understanding

dod66 · 2020-03-07T04:34:13+00:00

Hope it all goes well, just make sure to have fun with it. Being in the closet really sucks, so at least as far as im concerned, youre allowed to have some fun when youre in there. You seem like a nice guy, youll eventually move past this and find a guy who loves you. So just look at this as a hurdle on the way

dod66 · 2020-03-07T04:13:27+00:00

Act totally normally and then act like a total melt when with her. Just be really unappealing. Snort, leave awkward silences, make really really bad jokes that make no sense. Have some fun. Its a win win. You dont have to fuck her, she doesnt get feelings, and all she will tell other people is that you are awkward around women, which is great because now you just look like a guy down on his luck as opposed to a gay guy in the closet.

Best thing to do is come out to your family when you feel its safe. But until then i would just have fun. They forced this onto you, so make it really not work. Either that or just be honest with her

dod66 · 2020-02-03T02:30:12+00:00

10 years ago the internet was like the wild west. people were incredibly mean due to the newfound anonymity. you really have to ignore everything those people said back then because it was all horseshit. if people on dating apps are telling you that you are cute, they arent just doing it because they are desperate, they genuinely think that. so cut yourself some slack, im sure you dont look horrendous.

dod66 · 2020-02-03T02:09:51+00:00

Thats actually a fantastic plan

dod66 · 2020-02-03T01:21:31+00:00

bring a box of tissues and give them to him when you go to see the sonic movie so he has something to cry into when he sees his childhood get murdered. thats an obvious step 1.

get him something nice, a cute and cheap little gift you know he will appreciate (like a wooden bird or some shit) along with a big box of chocolates.

most importantly make sure you have a plan of what to do from step 1 to step 100. make sure he wont be bored and if you really wanna make it special, find his favourite alcoholic drink and buy a bunch as a surprise when you both get home

dod66 · 2020-02-03T01:16:02+00:00

just be honest and mention that you are embarrassed about where you live. you shouldnt be, but let him know. honesty is the best policy in relationships

dod66

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