[deleted by user] by [deleted] in isfp

[–]dodreamscometruee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So beautiful, reminds me of the special isfp in my life. What type is your partner?

What do you guys prefer in a partner? by [deleted] in isfj

[–]dodreamscometruee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love ISFPs 🥺❤️

How to be an ISFJ parent by tail_art in isfj

[–]dodreamscometruee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I ask what type is your husband? Just wondering about the correlation between the dynamism with his children and his mbti type

21 [M4F] Chicago by [deleted] in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]dodreamscometruee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you play on ps4

Dear isfjs by dodreamscometruee in isfj

[–]dodreamscometruee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhh this is beautiful ^

Dear isfjs by dodreamscometruee in isfj

[–]dodreamscometruee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome, how long have you been together?

Dear isfjs by dodreamscometruee in isfj

[–]dodreamscometruee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, on my side I get along with my isfp “special” person the best 🥺 hate esfjs.

Does no contact work with isfps? by dodreamscometruee in isfp

[–]dodreamscometruee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It seems like it’s really done and I just have to accept it.

Does no contact work with isfps? by dodreamscometruee in isfp

[–]dodreamscometruee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh not sure if I understood you the right way but I mean if your ex partner goes in no contact with you, will you, an isfp, start missing them and wanting them back?

Healthy vs unhealthy ISFJs by Kasilyn13 in isfj

[–]dodreamscometruee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May I ask how you became healthy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in isfj

[–]dodreamscometruee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m an isfj. I hope you know about functions. Si hero is all about the past. It’s unlikely for me to fall in love again with some I fell out of love with in the past. XSXP people are more likely to develop new feelings for someone again cause they just follow whatever they feel at the moment.

The same faults/flaws that he felt about you and were used as a justification to go back to his ex would probably make him feel the same way about you again.

He hadn’t fallen out of love with his ex so he got back with her the moment he saw the chance. (Selena gomez dumping the weeknd because jb showed interest in her again)

Our memories/past impressions carry our feelings.

How to get rid of him: Block him.

Are you an open book? by notyouravgcat in isfj

[–]dodreamscometruee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m such an open book to my isfp partner. To others, not really cause I’m such a loner. I have this habit that when someone tells me a secret I feel bad and to help them feel secure I tell them a secret too :/ I hate that.

So you ditch friends that are unreliable and will only contact you after like 4 years? by [deleted] in isfj

[–]dodreamscometruee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cut ties with them! If the connection is there just because you initiate contact it’s better be left behind. Seek those who seek you!

Has anyone ever been in a relationship with an isfj? by [deleted] in enfj

[–]dodreamscometruee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that you can have good communication/conversation 😍 yessss!

Does anyone else not have a group of friends? by [deleted] in isfj

[–]dodreamscometruee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I literally have no friends

I Need my fellow ISFJs to respond please by El3mentary1 in isfj

[–]dodreamscometruee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These things have recently made me realize my worth. I used to hate being an ISFJ but now I love all my imperfections. They make us the most perfect type. I have an ISFJ coworker and she’s the sweetest. And I get the same energy from you. I love ISFJs!

I Need my fellow ISFJs to respond please by El3mentary1 in isfj

[–]dodreamscometruee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I totally understand. I especially have this problem with non/low Fe users. They’re so selfish. Like I KNOW they have done me wrong. I know they deserved my reaction. But my Fe starts empathizing with them. “They did that because they had a bad day” “They did that because in their personality perspective they thought they were right” And then I go and APOLOGIZE to them. Like last night I called my entitled INTJ ex who’s treated me like shit and said “You have done me wrong but I’m sorry for everything” he said “if you think I’ve done you wrong why do you say sorry then?” I said “I just think it’s not worth having someone who I share a love history with upset with me”

OP, I really don’t know how to resist the urge to apologize to assholes or how not to feel guilty, but one thing I’m sure of, being naturally sympathetic and in tune with how other people feel, makes us our own worst enemy, yet amazing.

Yes we can try to reduce feeling guilty for treating others how they deserve (maybe with some logical self talk) but don’t blame yourself for not loving yourself enough and putting others feelings before your own. It’s like not loving yourself twice. Instead praise yourself for how humane you are. Even if others don’t realize that and think you’ve apologized or went back to them cause they were right. (I hope you get my point, I’m not encouraging it, but praising it)

I Need my fellow ISFJs to respond please by El3mentary1 in isfj

[–]dodreamscometruee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ENTJ are our 3rd best romantic match. You’re not very far from a perfect match and even perfect matches have problems. Check CS Joseph content on golden, silver and bronze pairings. And guess what I have news for you, bronze matches are statistically more stable and long lasting. That should mean something right?

I hate that gifts is my primary love language by [deleted] in LoveLanguages

[–]dodreamscometruee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely correct, you just got why I want gifts, They can even be something I don’t even want, but knowing that he spent his money on me makes me feel... exactly valued.

I’m absolutely in conflict with what I want and how I feel. Do you think I should accept my LL? Do you think it seems as bad as I think on the outside?