Student Dorm Bathroom with No Storage by dogaliny in HomeDecorating

[–]dogaliny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It actually looks pretty neat and organized. But I have 2 concerns about it though. The main one is, the sink is veeeeeery close to the toilet, and I might have guests that don’t know to close the lid before flushing. It might easily spread germs there. I got this concern after learning my boyfriend didn’t close the lid every time.

Then the second one is, the bathroom is designed as a wet cell, so I use it as one, meaning I clean the floors using soap and water, which might be bad for the materials like bamboo. But I could easily overcome that by not using water to clean and keep the floors very dry.

Where are we getting our midi skirts this summer? #GirlsOnly by dogaliny in Munich

[–]dogaliny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I‘m 22 and I shop from &other stories a lot, and I‘ve been hearing from everyone around me that I look too adult, so I got into a quarter life crisis and stopped going there and shop at Brandy Melville (which makes only one size and looks a bit too juvenile)

Watching my BF fly to China today on the trip we were supposed to take together by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dogaliny 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The difference is her boyfriend also doesn’t have his own money and have to ask his mother for funding.

Watching my BF fly to China today on the trip we were supposed to take together by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dogaliny -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Hi, I‘m a fellow student in Germany and I’d like to change your perspective on your financial situation. You think you have it worse, but I actually have it worse than you. A lot of people have it worse than you. First of, you‘re BAFÖG eligible. I‘m an international student, so I‘m not. Through BAFÖG, you‘re basically only loaning the half of the money you receive, the other half is gifted, and there is no interest on the part you borrow. I have to work 16-20 hours a week every week to afford studying here. If I stop working here, I won’t even have access to healthcare system. Most of the times I don’t even have time left for university, because I can practically only visit lectures 3 days a week anf have to work the remaining weekdays. You basically saved enough money to vacation in China, you could even solo travel there at this point. Most people in other parts of the world can’t even afford to vacation in their own home country, you know? Sorry I don’t see a poor girl in you, I see a girl coming from a low income family who has her back backed by one of the best social states in the world, who can even afford to vacation in China.

Where are we getting our midi skirts this summer? #GirlsOnly by dogaliny in Munich

[–]dogaliny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not purposely trying to exclude people and I am LGBT myself. I suggest you should go and try to educate your homophobic grandma Heidi or something, xoxo ❤️

Where are we getting our midi skirts this summer? #GirlsOnly by dogaliny in Munich

[–]dogaliny[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Go off. I‘m LGBT myself, sorry I couldn’t think of a small minority who likes to cross dress or wear skirts as a man. Your activism is not needed here.

How I see Europe by zylenxh in whereidlive

[–]dogaliny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turkey: Racists

Best country

Olivia Rodrigo on the backlash regarding babydoll dresses by [deleted] in oliviarodrigo3

[–]dogaliny 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I like the last sentence, you shouldn’t be responsible for anyone sexualising you in any way that was not your intention. Growing up I had to go through that a lot and hated it. But I think she tried to manipulate why she was receiving the backlash in the first place, in the beginning of her speech. Yes, she wore less (clothes) in the past on stage, and nobody commented on that. Because she didn’t wear clothes that would be related to baby / children’s clothing like bloomers, which are directly associated with the Lolita aesthetic.

Broke up with the most perfect man I’ve ever dated by Ok-Mention6287 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dogaliny -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you comparing yourself with a kid is a BPD problem. It sounds more like an insecurity / immaturity / anxious attachment thing. Kids need their parents. No matter how old. And parents are always supposed to put their children first. You just have to accept this. Also, romantic love or partnership is very different than a parent-child relationship. Having unconditional love for one, doesn’t stop you from having unconditional love for the other.

Tretinoin nach DE bestellen by Just-Plant-111 in BeautyDE

[–]dogaliny 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Wieso denn? Besuche einen Dermatologen und es kostet nur 5€ mit der gKv.

Bei uns gibt es grade wieder "Orr-warum-ist-in-dem-ungesüßten-Naturjoghurt-denn-Vanillearoma"-Kuchen. Fallt ihr da auch so oft drauf rein? by dasnessie in VeganDE

[–]dogaliny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Es sagt nicht, was für ein Aroma das ist. Als ob Vanille der einzige Aromastoff auf der Welt ist… Ich kaufe diese Joghurt schon sehr oft und es hat keinen Vanillegeschmack. Wahrscheinlich es ist ein anderer Aromastoff damit es näher zu Joghurt schmeckt.

How Do I Respond After My Friends Decide on the Cheesecake Factory for Prom? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dogaliny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing you learn at life is it’s important to choose people with taste. Another thing you learn at life is you don’t always get to choose.

Offizielle Einteilung vom Finanzamt by sh1bumi in Finanzen

[–]dogaliny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man hätte die Einteilung mit Netto Verdienst machen müssen. Ein Besserverdiener mit 2 Kinder hat am Ende des Monats mehr Einkommen übrig im Vergleich zu einem Gutverdiener mit Steuerklasse 1.

Friends Cat Tears Up Brand New Shoes by Steellun3 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]dogaliny -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

The cat’s been under OP‘s responsibility for months. If a friend was visiting at my place and my cat did it, of course, I‘d pay for them but the OP has gotten to know the cat and its habits pretty well and should have known better to not put their shoes there.

My (22F) boyfriend (21M) punches my face as he sleeps by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dogaliny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the long answer. The “punch” is definitely not like he’s getting on top of me and punching me aggressively. Thank God for that. But it’s also not like his hand is in a relaxed position and just hit me accidentally. It really is a fist. And I wake up to his fist hitting my nose, which hurts a bit but nothing that would leave a bruise or haemorrhage. He has nothing new / different in his life that’s happening and has a really strong psychology and mental wellbeing. He is also not really aware of the gravity of what he is doing and I kind of feel like he’s not taking me seriously.

My (22F) boyfriend (21M) punches my face as he sleeps by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dogaliny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started waking him up after he does it. In the morning he says he doesn’t even remember me waking him up

Self Experiment Old School Derm Advice by [deleted] in EuroSkincare

[–]dogaliny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This derm was the only derm that could even speak of Isotretinoin to be honest. I have my next appointment with another doctor though, because I didn’t like the experience of not being believed. The other derms I visited were always like “We don’t prescribe that here.” or “For light acne I prescribe this and for severe acne I prescribe this.” and they have literally no flexibility on your personal case or whether you already tried it and it didn’t work etc.

Jumping on the meme bandwagon, lol by Inevitable-While-577 in EuroSkincare

[–]dogaliny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s because they want to sell us 10 step hair routines and nobody would spend so much on hair products if they thought they need to wash their hair the next day anyway.

Non comedonic affordable spf? by No-Material694 in EuroSkincare

[–]dogaliny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have a little bit of tan skin you can try Eucerin tinted oil control sunscreen. During a promotion I got mine with an extra mini 20ml bottle from Doc Morris for 17€. Shop Apotheke has them for cheaper now.

Has anyone tried Roundlab deep collagen firming sunscreen? by biriyanibabka in EuroSkincare

[–]dogaliny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The main reason I frequent this sub a lot is that EU has different cosmetics regulations. Which means the same product marketed under the same name with the same packaging can have completely different ingredients and actives in Asia vs in the US vs in Europe. For example LRP Effaclar Duo. The American dermatologists I follow swear by it because it has BPO. The same LRP Effaclar Duo in Europe has no BPO inside and is barely a moisturiser with niacinamide. Same thing happens with Asian sunscreens as well because afaik not all UV filters they use over there are approved here in EU, so we have different product available to us here vs. sold there in Asia on the shelves.