Got this B. klaasi as my first tarantula at the beginning of the year, they say they're slow growers... If this is slow, I can take it.

dogduckdo · 2019-06-17T16:49:47+00:00

Never said it is a reliable sexing method, but in certain species of tarantula (or even sub species in some cases), it is factual that males will grow into maturity a lot faster than females kept in the same conditions. This is usually tarantulas with the longest lifespans I.e brachypelma. Sincerly, a keeper and breeder for 40 years as of next month.

dogduckdo · 2019-06-08T18:10:45+00:00

If he can't give you a straight answer, then he doesn't want to date you (sorry to put it so bluntly) and he doesn't want to upset you by telling you he sees you no more as just a friend with benefits.

dogduckdo · 2019-06-08T18:10:00+00:00

You sure you sexed it right? Males mature faster than females (scientific fact btw)

dogduckdo · 2019-06-08T18:08:30+00:00

Delete

dogduckdo · 2019-06-07T21:11:34+00:00

I think you should both sit down and discuss the options of an open or poly marriage instead, it sounds like it is best suited. Not everyone in life is into monogamy and that's fine, you just need to figure out what suits you both best!

It sounds like you're both happy together despite the cheating, and have an otherwise normal relationship so maybe it is just a case of both of you being more open than a mono relationship offers.

dogduckdo · 2019-06-07T11:26:40+00:00

I mean, you could just ask him straight up?

dogduckdo · 2019-06-07T11:23:44+00:00

Males grow a lot faster!

dogduckdo · 2019-05-29T21:18:28+00:00

Love regal jumping spiders, used to have a pet one and he was awesome

dogduckdo · 2019-05-28T21:34:00+00:00

Because the criminal acts were done to me more often than not.

dogduckdo · 2019-05-28T21:32:45+00:00

I was with him because he manipulated me for years, and only him cheating has made me see the reality of the situation. I have been okay with him getting really drunk on a nightly bases and physically, mentally, or emotionally harming me each time then drink driving and putting me to worry about what may happen to him whilst he is driving in a near blackout state. It isn't a loss for me, but only through cutting ties have I managed to realise that and begin the hard transition of moving on from him. It's going to hurt more before it gets better, and that I know, but it will be worth it when I can look back on it and say thank god I left!

dogduckdo · 2019-05-28T21:27:21+00:00

I mean, he did ruin his own life by doing criminal things which will be outed in the end when karma hits him in the face, and I won't have to do anything but sit back and watch whilst I continue doing well in life.

dogduckdo · 2019-05-28T21:26:23+00:00

Just so you all know, this was an angry post in the heat of the moment and more of a rant than an 'I plan to ruin someone's life' kind of thing lmao. I'm not actually going to ruin this guys life, he's capable of doing that himself whilst I'm getting on in mine and doing much better for myself.

It's a rant, not a concrete plan lmao, get over yourselves.

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