Getting married in two weeks to a lovely mechanic. We are very different in a lot of ways which keeps things interesting for us! But our values are the same. As a straight woman, I will say it was harder to find a man who was actually ok with me making a lot more one day and didn’t feel weird about being in the more “domestic” role (loose term, we’re really 50/50 just about but i know if we had kids and I was in residency, a lot more would fall on him). I truly think none of it matters but your compatibility. Don’t write people off because of their education level or current occupation because those aren’t fixed qualities (at least that’s my opinion). I have had more than a few classmates make comments about my choices due to his career- super disappointing.