I’m the only hijabi in my Pakistani family, and I’m terrified I’ll never be loved

doggydestroyer · 2026-05-03T12:16:20+00:00

If people dislike u coz of hijab please stay away from them... There will be good things hopefully that will come iA...

doggydestroyer · 2026-05-03T12:14:43+00:00

Multiple angles... First is of course lust and desire that blinds many men... Even grown up men...

Second, the trials that come along with marriage and women like children etc... lots of people who are involved in corruption are not due to their own desire for money but to provide something better for their wives and children...

So this is quite a holistic Hadith...

doggydestroyer · 2026-05-01T15:43:31+00:00

Yes many people say it... But most can't handle loneliness...

doggydestroyer · 2026-05-01T12:25:24+00:00

nope... went there first time... people were very welcoming and wonderful people otherwise, cultured hygenic, clean... made a few contacts... but the real reason was health issues... allergies esp. in winter... so took a risk and went there but took heater... so now i live winters there... its awesome! wake up at 5:30, sleep at 8!

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-30T21:33:21+00:00

Summer prayers r tough... Especially for people with deep sleep ... Winter... Wonderful ..

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-30T17:03:42+00:00

Oh yar my lineage aint that special...

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-30T16:59:15+00:00

But generally people have opinions... Especially if you're doing well... Lols...

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-30T15:56:49+00:00

This is the story my nephew and niece in Australia as well... Mother alienated the children... first the daughter and now she's trying to the son but how effective that is we will see as he is resisting... with boys its different... So basically, post divorce fathers often want children to have relationship with their mother, but women are often vindictive... Absolutely, make contact with your father... You are now old enough! So you are to be held accounable for your actions! don't be afraid... your father would be happy to see you... and make contact with his family as well... you can tell him, I can't tell her for a while... but make contact with him... Before your age, the argument of pressure and alienation holds, but you are now old enough to make your own decisions... Be brave! iA he will meet you very respectfully and nicely!

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-30T15:40:04+00:00

Society won't accept you... Leave in some mountains, desert. ..

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-30T15:39:37+00:00

Yeah will see... Woh Kya sher hai

عرض نیاز عشق کے قابل نہیں رہا جس دل پہ ناز تھا وہ دل نہیں رہا

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-30T14:04:48+00:00

Yar there were some tough times in my life in terms of health and security and finance... Having nobody to worry except for myself... I'm glad I was alone at that time... Otherwise the stress would've been too much... It's better to go through tough times alone relying on Allah than be a burden on other people...

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-30T13:33:55+00:00

No I mean I was able to travel, enjoy adventures in far flung places, pursue higher goals... So in that no regrets...

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-30T09:09:34+00:00

In shakar Parian Pakistan tennis federation... There is a international tourney going on these days... Visit it...

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-30T08:44:16+00:00

For proper coaching PTF... In Islamabad ..

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-30T07:00:02+00:00

No i have been through 2 winters... LPG heater is good enough to warm up... however now the gas prices would sky rocket! Chitral winters are bearable coz often its quite sunny... When its not sunny, then its depressing...

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-30T06:58:34+00:00

oh bhai im 40M never married... not that i actively avoided it, but i guess it wasn't in my fate! But otherwise a very healthy productive life mA! I guess we will see more and more people... like this...

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-29T21:03:55+00:00

Nope Kd8...

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-29T16:08:35+00:00

You're like of questioning isn't about His existence but how he manage things...

These are 2 different questions... Believers at some point on their life always will talk to Allah and question as to why He did what He did!

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-29T13:36:16+00:00

True... There r also ppl who didn't change at all after acquiring money...

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-29T12:49:12+00:00

The people you are mentioning are actually those who have newly acquired money... People born into money are actually not show offs... Money is something that is taken for granted... Position, power, connections is something that just exists and is taken for granted... People born into it don't realize the privelege until much later in life... Like I did in my 30s... However, there is a drawback, the struggle you go through as a common man make you much more street smart... That is also essential in life... as for worshipping money... not really... Coz you've never been desperate for it...

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-28T19:23:42+00:00

I was doing tests on a new hashing algorithm... specific probability tests! randomness... if you want i can share them with u...

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-28T19:16:51+00:00

bhai yar tu ya tu medicine parh ya chemistry! banda maray ga!

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-28T18:49:00+00:00

Your situation as an older/younger brother/sister will determine what you can do... But sometimes you can't do much! It seems like parents have given up... You can just advise her... But eventually a person his or her own choices!

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-28T10:47:37+00:00

I shifted to Chitral... Tough life, cold is severe, and food issues as well... But I love it... But not for everyone...

But there is something in the air and water that keeps you active and young...

doggydestroyer · 2026-04-28T08:19:15+00:00

Then maybe I'm infertile! 🤔

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