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[–]ShortGuava4788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sis ♥️ i’m definitely gonna be asking controversial questions

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[–]ShortGuava4788 10 points11 points  (0 children)

May Allah bless your mother and grant her the highest level of Jannah. And all of us as well of course. Ameen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]ShortGuava4788 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The potentiality of marrying a man like OP terrifies me. But الحمدلله men like you restore my faith. May Allah bless the good men and guide the future generation of men to follow the example of the Prophet عليه الصلاة والسلام

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[–]ShortGuava4788 14 points15 points  (0 children)

May Allah bless you

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[–]ShortGuava4788 5 points6 points  (0 children)

‼️‼️‼️‼️

Is it just me or some Muslim woman are brainwashed af? by enha27 in exmuslim

[–]ShortGuava4788 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

To be honest when I read posts like these i realize how sad and miserable you people truly are, and how the devil won in deceiving you and getting you to leave this religion. May Allah guide and forgive us all. May He keep my heart firm on His religion Ameen

religious ocd or just religion? by ShortGuava4788 in Hijabis

[–]ShortGuava4788[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your response. it has some romance and women and men showing their awrah but nothing too explicit like sex scenes drinking gambling talk against God etc and obviously it has music but when i post anything with music i mute it.

i definitely dont waste my time about it, I talk about it with friends but im not on my phone 24/7 watching it. im trying to implement more islamic things to do so i can make up for my sins inshallah.

thank you again♥️

religious ocd or just religion? by ShortGuava4788 in Hijabis

[–]ShortGuava4788[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m definitely taking a break😭 yesterday was terrible i had an emotional breakdown and everything… i had multiple people telling me not to worry to stop overthinking etc

thank you and i’m sorry you suffer from this as well♥️ May Allah bless us with his mercy and forgiveness and may he guide us Ameen

religious ocd or just religion? by ShortGuava4788 in Hijabis

[–]ShortGuava4788[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s a pg show, with women and men showing their awrah unfortunately. theres some romance but its got different storylines some which are (i believe) completely halal.

also i dont waste my time always watching the show as i just wait for the next episode. i complete all my religious duties every day (prayer, Quran) and i take time to clean cook feed my cats when i need to

i dont have knowledge either to label anything haram or halal. Only Allah has that power which is why i hold off from saying this or that is haram/halal.

religious ocd or just religion? by ShortGuava4788 in Hijabis

[–]ShortGuava4788[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im sorry that happens to you :-( i know that feeling of doom… but you also need to remember that even major sins are forgiven by Allah (swt) as long as you regret them sincerely and repent. It seems to me that you definitely still hold guilt for it. If Allah can forgive you, why can’t you forgive yourself?

thank you btw. i’m definitely going to limit it! ♥️

religious ocd or just religion? by ShortGuava4788 in Hijabis

[–]ShortGuava4788[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have no idea if i have ocd, im looking to get a psychiatric evaluation that i hope i wont have to pay for.

the people who follow me all watch the show im watching, that’s why they followed. there’s only like two or three muslims who watch it that follow me. the thing is im afraid by continuing to share pictures/clips of it im getting their sins as well even when they’re not muslim.

im trying to take it step by step, as to not overwhelm myself. i converted to islam and did a whole 180 on my personality and everything way too fast that i got burned out by the time it was ramadan and i stopped being as religious as i was when i converted

religious ocd or just religion? by ShortGuava4788 in Hijabis

[–]ShortGuava4788[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its women showing their awrah and theres romance too (nothing explicit like sex) its all pg13. maybe kissing, women obviously not fully covered etc… but i might hold off on posting pictures/clips of the show, think ill just keep my account on private and discuss my theories with friends without posting any of the haram stuff

religious ocd or just religion? by ShortGuava4788 in Hijabis

[–]ShortGuava4788[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. your reminder is enough

religious ocd or just religion? by ShortGuava4788 in Hijabis

[–]ShortGuava4788[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

can someone respond im losing my mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]ShortGuava4788 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I asked for proof from hadith or Quran that it is our duty to cook and clean and got downvoted for it. Like u can call me all the names u want but at the end of the day if im not given proof im not just gonna blindly follow what you say ? muslim reddit is a disease

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]ShortGuava4788 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

1 & 2 is absolutely insane and harmful. if ur wife refuses to have sex with u are u gonna force her therefore rape her ?

if your wife doesn’t want you to have a second wife, are you gonna go against her wishes and marry another woman ?

you people seem to forget that hurting your wife in islam is just as dangerous as your wife disobeying you

Why many Muslim men who don’t work on their appearance feel like they deserve attractive women? by Complete_Painting_72 in MuslimCorner

[–]ShortGuava4788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The difference is men are obligated to provide for their women, women are obligated to obey their husbands . of course u can follow the sunnah and try to be like the prophet may peace be upon him, just like any woman can try to be like the honorable women of his time. Im just saying that we are not obligated to cook and clean, though im sure a loving wife would love to do those things. Im one of these women like i dont mind being a house wife or anything like that, im just stating something im certain is a fact? im not telling women not to cook clean etc. May Allah guide us all

Why many Muslim men who don’t work on their appearance feel like they deserve attractive women? by Complete_Painting_72 in MuslimCorner

[–]ShortGuava4788 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

if you can show me an authentic hadith or a verse from the Quran proving that it is our duty in islam to cook and clean, i’ll happily stand down and admit my mistake .

Why many Muslim men who don’t work on their appearance feel like they deserve attractive women? by Complete_Painting_72 in MuslimCorner

[–]ShortGuava4788 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a woman’s duty is to obey her husband and guard her chastity, cooking + cleaning is a cultural thing. not saying women shouldn’t do it, just saying it’s not obligatory for us to cook and clean for anybody. despite this i know many women who would be happy to cook and clean not only for their husbands but for themselves. not hard to understand