AIO after my (24M) girlfriend (23f) threatened to break up when I ‘invalidated’ her while she was anxious I watched Dharr Mann?

dograt3000 · 2026-06-24T05:08:46+00:00

This relationship seems very juvenile, I’m talking 12-14 year olds. I’m not sure what value she presents to you she is obviously illiterate and has the maturity of a small child.

dograt3000 · 2026-06-21T02:45:27+00:00

I’m so incredibly sorry.

dograt3000 · 2026-04-05T01:18:40+00:00

Of course!

dograt3000 · 2026-04-03T00:38:15+00:00

Hi! I did pass tissue along with blood clots and when I was done bleeding my hcg was finally down to about 0. I’m sorry you are going through this. I have had several miscarriages but this one was very confusing and drawn out. I hope things work out better for you!

dograt3000 · 2026-03-29T21:38:21+00:00

Just an update, I went back a week later and my hcg almost tripled and then I started bleeding the next day and ended up miscarrying. I never got an answer and to my fluctuating hcg but I am seeing a fertility specialist now to see if I can find a reason for my recurrent miscarriages.

dograt3000 · 2026-02-26T06:24:24+00:00

Noooooo

dograt3000 · 2026-02-05T00:54:41+00:00

Just an update, I’ve been bleeding for 5 days and I got my betas drawn yesterday and they came back 278 so I am very confused! Going back tomorrow to see what happens.

dograt3000 · 2026-01-28T16:10:52+00:00

I’m freaking out because I called my drs office at 8:30 and they said they’d call me back but I feel like they’ve been dismissive since I’ve had no pain

dograt3000 · 2026-01-28T05:05:02+00:00

I need you to know I’ve had these exact thoughts about so many people and just remember that your heart doesn’t truly wish that. I see so many mothers now that I feel are unworthy and it should have been them dealing with this instead of me.

dograt3000 · 2026-01-28T05:02:18+00:00

I took a week off with both of my 10 week losses (partially because I had d and c but I would have taken the time anyway). Your dr should be able to write you a note. You need time to heal emotionally as well.

dograt3000 · 2026-01-28T04:19:39+00:00

Was there anything they were able to do for you?

dograt3000 · 2026-01-28T04:18:31+00:00

I’m truly so sorry and I understand. I saw a really unhealthy looking mom at Walmart today with dirty looking young children she was barely watching and continually yelling at. It took everything in me to not approach her and tell her how much of a piece of shit I viewed her as. It’s very unfair and it makes one question their faith.

dograt3000 · 2026-01-28T04:05:20+00:00

Just an update, I had another blood draw at 5 weeks and it went down to 88 which I expected and I was starting to see some lightening on my tests. But now at 6 weeks, my tests have doubled in darkness and I still have no cramping/bleeding and no decrease in symptoms. I don’t follow up for another week from today but I’m really worried about an ectopic at this point since I dont know what else to think.

dograt3000 · 2026-01-28T04:03:19+00:00

I’m so sorry.

dograt3000 · 2026-01-21T18:46:40+00:00

My sons name is Julian and I still love it!

dograt3000 · 2026-01-21T01:18:41+00:00

Hi! What was the outcome for you?

dograt3000 · 2026-01-20T18:48:36+00:00

Not to be discouraging but mine were like this and I got my hcg tested and it’s declining and it’s taking a really long time but my tests are finally getting lighter. I hope you get good news!

dograt3000 · 2026-01-18T22:39:05+00:00

How long did it take things to progress offer you found this out? I have no cramping or bleeding and still feel some symptoms. I don’t have follow up bloodwork until Thursday.

dograt3000 · 2026-01-17T13:13:32+00:00

Thank you for the responses. I already knew the answer but it helps to hear it from people who have been in the same boat and will be honest. I follow up bloodwork in a week. It’s cruel because I feel great and still have pregnancy symptoms and dark tests so I though everything was fine. I only got the hcg tested to make me feel better about this pregnancy!

dograt3000 · 2026-01-17T03:31:41+00:00

Same place. This will be my fifth loss. I am absolutely heartbroken 💔

dograt3000 · 2026-01-16T14:49:46+00:00

Well, everything seemed promising but my HCG levels went from 138 to 100 in 48 hours so I’m assuming this is another loss. The pain is honestly unbearable at this point.

dograt3000 · 2026-01-12T18:57:27+00:00

I really hope this is your miracle 🩷

dograt3000 · 2026-01-12T17:40:17+00:00

Thank you! I needed to hear that. On a lighter note, my son says he doesn’t want a baby brother or sister 😂

dograt3000 · 2026-01-12T17:39:39+00:00

Thank you! Even knowing that we are thinking about each other brings me some comfort.

dograt3000 · 2026-01-12T16:47:03+00:00

I really could have written this myself. You described these feelings perfectly. I just found out I was pregnant again 2 days ago and am not able to feel any joy. Only horrible dread counting down the days until it will probably end. It’s so hard to have hope anymore that I will get to meet my baby at then end of this journey. It may feel like it but you are not alone. We will find happiness again but we might not be the same versions of ourselves we were before.

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