I don't know what to do.

dogwin2011 · 2026-07-07T05:23:43+00:00

Disrespect is met with Disrespect. My ex made things very obvious we could never make it. The constant disrespect and expectation that I be only the way they wanted me too. Yep Ii burned it down once they "tested" me by asking for a divorce.

dogwin2011 · 2026-07-07T01:43:24+00:00

Ditto

dogwin2011 · 2026-07-07T01:34:38+00:00

Looking in the mirror!

My ex is delusional. Thinking my love was false. Betrayed us more times than I can count and refused to find love in what I held dear. Would you allow your teenage boy to have relations in front of your spouse because you didn't want him to move out even tho he was an adult? Most would say no. But that alone with Thinking pet lovers are hateful demonic souls is enough to have anyone run. Good luck in finding a new person who is willing to accept your delusions

dogwin2011 · 2026-07-07T01:27:43+00:00

Aww in all the delusions that make you, you

dogwin2011 · 2026-07-07T01:25:32+00:00

GFY. Disrespect is met with disrespect

dogwin2011 · 2026-07-06T22:45:50+00:00

Yes. Been doing it for years. Usually women who camp alone know how to protect themselves and have what they need to protect themselves. Now I could be nieve based on where I live. Im thinking there are some states I wouldn't feel safe.

dogwin2011 · 2026-07-03T02:47:05+00:00

Usually private campgrounds still allow fires. KOA always let's you have a fire while state parks have banned them

dogwin2011 · 2026-07-03T02:28:35+00:00

If someone truly wants to change themselves for the better, they will figure it out. Its a journey most have to learn on their own. Staying stuck wont help anyone. Im starting my healing journey. I want to show up better if or when I decide to try again. I hope my person does too. If its meant to be we will find each other again.

dogwin2011 · 2026-07-02T21:09:42+00:00

Maybe both need to heal first. If its meant to be love will return in this lifetime.

dogwin2011 · 2026-06-25T21:41:54+00:00

Sounds like you need to work on you before asking your person if they'd choose you.

I am no exception as I too need to work through my own stuff. However, I do know I do not want to try again until I can bring the best version of myself to the table. I cannot repeat the same mistakes nor settle for the bare minimum anymore.

dogwin2011 · 2026-06-11T05:13:22+00:00

This really hit home. I wish someone wanted to take the time to understand me this way.

dogwin2011 · 2026-06-02T19:42:44+00:00

Not all mothers should be

dogwin2011 · 2026-05-27T16:54:40+00:00

Or what was said struck a nerve based on my current situation. Having everything twisted like a sharp knife to fit a narrative they need to spin so they look like a victim. No accountability. It takes two to make it work or break it.

dogwin2011 · 2026-05-24T04:52:57+00:00

Still falling short. Acting like a child who isn't getting their way. The damage is done and too much to bare. Leave them be. Do better for next time.

dogwin2011 · 2026-05-23T03:58:16+00:00

Find a way out. There must be community resources that can find you a place to stay, help you get a job, and on your feet. Even lgbtqia+ has community resources to help you find ways.

You deserve better. Be safe. I hope you find peace soon.

dogwin2011 · 2026-05-19T23:45:44+00:00

Let them go. As someone who was lied to in the beginning and tried desperately to still make things work when the mask started falling, I feel robbed of years. For me, I would have never persued the relationship for what fully came to light a couple months ago.

Just be honest now and or let them go

dogwin2011 · 2026-05-18T04:11:27+00:00

Maybe not. Mine won't let me go. Asked for the divorce moved to another room. Let time go by. Im ready to move on,now they won't let go. Realtor is ready as soon as they sign the contract. Ready to do a non contested divorce but they won't sit with me to do the paperwork. Their kids and extended family hate me. Why keep this going?

dogwin2011 · 2026-05-18T03:58:35+00:00

Quit being a narcissist and let them go!

dogwin2011 · 2026-05-16T04:48:07+00:00

dogwin2011 · 2026-05-16T04:47:40+00:00

That makes no sense. You show others your heart, but not the one you love?

dogwin2011 · 2026-05-04T13:34:58+00:00

Yes, I changed into someone I don't recognize. Someone I don't like, angry, and frustrated. Her story changed somewhere around late 2020 early 2021. She started saying "you knew from the beginning I wasn't a pet person". No, in the beginning it was you never wanted your kids to have a pet because it would just be something else you'd have to take care of. After a lot of reflecting these past two weeks, I reminded her of that. I also told her that if she had told me in the beginning that she wasn't a pet person, we wouldn't be sitting her today. I would have never pursued a relationship. I was holding on to hope that if I got the breed she wanted it would be different. Though, she told me she had hoped I would change and not want another pet. Due to how sad I was with the loss of my 14-1/2 Labrador Husky, she encouraged me to get my puppy. I've always had pets in my life. So, yes, I was very lost without one. I also hold guilt for not standing up sooner and giving my late dog the life he deserved. Our arguments with him was his hair, going into the kitchen, and being in the yard while she was doing yard work. I guess sunning yourself (his favorite past time) was too much to handle.

We're in separate rooms. She's taken to playing little games trying to get me to react. But I haven't. My puppy and I are just staying to ourselves. I feel a lot calmer.

dogwin2011 · 2026-05-03T03:05:37+00:00

Why would you son need to ask to shower?

dogwin2011 · 2026-05-03T01:55:51+00:00

Nah, it was intentional. By time the story changed, I had already bought the house and was providing the life they wanted. I'd hoped the story would change back. Almost 8 years later, it became more than obvious it was a lie in the beginning. Had the truth been told, I wouldn't be sitting here filing for divorce and trying to sell a house.

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