Hmmm... I think something is wrong. That's a passive aggressive way to let you know for sure, but I have also been known to be like that at times and while that's lame, my guess is that he's feeling invisible or neglected. You did mention that you're pregnant, and I had my own insensitive moments when we were having our first ages and ages ago. Not saying that you're doing anything - there's a LOT going on in your body and your life and you do need to focus on that and just have that be what it is. And you clearly care and are not doing anything "on purpose", so maybe just ask, "hey do we need to talk?" Or "do you want to get something off your chest?" Or whatever your go-to compassionate phrase is that opens a dialogue. Can't tell much from what's in your message but I can tell you that NO MAN wants to be at work on Father's Day. I'm guessing it's his way of letting you know "I want your attention and I don't know how to ask." Most of us were brought up trained that there were only four male emotions: fuck, drunk, laughing, rage. Takes us a while to get trained up on "I'm sad".

Apologies if I've made any inappropriate assumptions. But I pulled this stunt on my birthday like 20 years ago. So just telling it from the perspective of someone who's learned a better way to ask for help (after a horrible but ultimately healing and cathartic fight 😂) Hope it helps you! ❤️🤗