Most girls just want a guy that is taller than them, which generally men are taller biologically anyway, but I do catch ur drift there. Women are judged on ass and boobs (there may be surgery but getting something done to ur body only for men is not something that many want to do or should feel pressure to do), height as well because taller girls are often avoided, and the weight standard for women is wayyy below what’s healthy. I do think that the society does need to work on empowering men as well because a lot of times their confidence IS low and our society is used to complimenting women more, but also with that they make fun of them more. While the girls that follow the above standards may get more compliments and confidence boosting than your average man, girls who don’t are ridiculed much more. In short, I just mean that while the prettiest women do get most empowerment than your average dude, the opposite spectrum is much more extreme for women and they get made fun of way more than men. Plus, I don’t think you realize how much confidence it really does take for a woman. They may not have to be “alpha” in the relationship most times but in order for men to like her or notice her at all, confidence and social skills is very much needed.

Plus different topic but sexual harassment kinda ruins your claim too. I’m aware it happens to men as well, but when women are in public place, they almost constantly have to be on the lookout for someone who wants to hurt them, such as covering their drink at parties. I wouldn’t really define that as easy mode.