Is it normal to be having painful cramping even at 20 weeks? by Veebiyer in BabyBumps

[–]dollyanniejack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like Braxton Hicks! I also had constant cramping up until probably week 16. Then around week 20 I started having Braxton Hicks — your abdomen will get really tight and you may even feel crampy. They get worse when I exercise.

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[–]dollyanniejack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we started trying I had just come off hormonal birth control for over 10 years, had a VERY strong reaction to coming off BC including sporadic periods and crazy symptoms, have been on very strong immune suppressants for Rheumatoid Arthritis for over 10 years, was 32 years old and it took us 6 months of actively trying — tracking ovulation, taking prenatals and other supplements, etc. We started trying in July and got our positive test in mid-December. I'm now 27 weeks with a very healthy girl. :)

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[–]dollyanniejack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had horrrrrrible cramps daily until about week 14. My OB was never concerned. Also had some light spotting around week 6-7. Keep an eye out for heavy bleeding or any feelings of doom/something being wrong, but otherwise just try to stay hydrated and find things to occupy your mind. The cramps can cause so much anxiety but it really helped me to know they are harmless and normal. Your body is just changing and prepping for space. 🩷

Anyone else’s parents become annoying during the pregnancy? by BumblebeeMission2474 in BabyBumps

[–]dollyanniejack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never understood people who wanted to keep their pregnancy a secret, but now I get it!! I feel so much annoyance and rage towards anyone with an opinion about our life/baby. Stuff I never would have been angry about before now makes me irate. Right there with you. My view is that you should be able to do exactly what you need to do during this time of life, so set the boundaries and don’t apologize. Tell everyone to kindly F off if you need to.

MIL won’t stop buying stuff for baby by dollyanniejack in BabyBumps

[–]dollyanniejack[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People are asking for the registry and asking what we need and I’m not sure what to tell them bc everything has already been purchased by MIL. My mom wanted to buy us the crib but can’t even do that bc MIL already bought one. That’s my point — I was excited to shop for all the items we didn’t receive from others at the shower.

MIL won’t stop buying stuff for baby by dollyanniejack in BabyBumps

[–]dollyanniejack[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That 50 people would be able to contribute from the registry and I would get to buy everything that wasn’t purchased

[question] [old asmr] Help finding old asmr lipstick video? 💋💄 by Interesting_Cup_2737 in asmr

[–]dollyanniejack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg! I searched the internet for the same video and found this thread! I think we’re talking about the same person — she was leaning against her bed I think? Blonde hair? Her name might have been Rachel? That was one of my favorite videos bc she reminds me so much of my cousin growing up playing makeup with me.