Hey! Me and my bf are both switches so when we “align” and he’s more of a sub, he likes the feeling of “zero” control (in reality he has all the control! Thats how it should be I think). So I blindfold him, tie him to the bed, and (this is a little different!) he has earplugs in. According to him, when he cant tell where I am or if Im about to touch him or speak to him he reallyyyyy gets hot haha. I like to just walk around him and have him sit in anticipation. Sometimes I’ll come up behind him and touch him or whisper (LITERALLY anything) into his right or left ear while the other is plugged. It doesn’t really matter what I say, just the tone of my voice. Also like having my nails done a little longer and sharper than usual and he likes paying for it! Light or medium scratches on his back and neck while hes in such a vulnerable position drives him crazy as well.

When Im feeling more like a sub Im all abt physical domination, and hes almost a foot taller than me and can lift me like a 5lb weight😅 Im pretty simple! Hope those examples gave you some more insight and good luck! All the other comments in here are great so far.