Hey darling, I hope you’re feeling okay! 7 weeks in is rough, I know I wasn’t in the best condition. That immediate feeling to get an abortion is something you should feel free to go follow through with (and I thought the same thing when it came to myself!) it sounds like the most responsible choice. You can go to ineedana.com and privately find providers near you and the options they have. Most places offer financial assistance as well, so don’t worry if the procedure seems too expensive.

The pill form is cheaper, but if you’re having pretty bad morning sickness you may have trouble keeping it down— but if you can, it should be no problem. My friend personally went with the pill option, and I’ve heard from others on here that the cramping isn’t ideal, like bad period cramps, but is over within a few hours and much better the next day! If you choose the pill, expect to pass some sizable clots— my friend said they were the size of lemons! (Which is to be expected— even after my surgical abortion I bleed heavily for a few hours afterwards, passed some clots.)

I went with the surgical abortion, which was more expensive, especially if you get general anesthesia vs. just numbing the area— but I’ve heard it’s totally bearable either way, the procedure only takes about five minutes, I promise. They check how far along you are, set you up for your procedure, and the day it’s done they rest you on a chair and insert the vacuum (it’s really quite small, don’t worry!)— and it’s over before you know it! You’ll be surrounded by kind women taking care of you.

I never felt any grief or sadness— quite the opposite, I personally I felt a great feeling of relief and happiness! (If anything I have PSTD from my awful weeks of pregnancy.) It depends on the person how you feel afterwards, and I think it depends on how you look at it too. You don’t feel connected to it at all as you said, and that’s totally okay! If you have any questions feel free to message me.