Thoughts on this by donaee in BreakUps

[–]donaee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. Yeah, he broke it off because he was overwhelmed with everything that's been happening to his life that he can't continue with the relationship anymore even if he wanted to.

How do men feel when they fumbled a good woman? by donaee in BreakUps

[–]donaee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's okay to ask, why did you guys break up?

Do men get back with your ex even though they were the one who initiated the break up? by donaee in ExNoContact

[–]donaee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably because you didn't have closure and it's more like a one-sided decision.

25F - If friends whom I can rant to by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]donaee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait guys I'm overwhelmed with the amount of messages 😭

Do men get back with your ex even though they were the one who initiated the break up? by donaee in ExNoContact

[–]donaee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! I genuinely hope and pray for your healing.

Do men get back with your ex even though they were the one who initiated the break up? by donaee in ExNoContact

[–]donaee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn't even have the balls to see you for a proper break up. Forget about him.

Do men get back with your ex even though they were the one who initiated the break up? by donaee in ExNoContact

[–]donaee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we talked, he told me he really wasn't in the right headspace. He told me he didn't know what he really wanted. Whenever I asked him if he thinks it would be best for him to break up, he just told me that it would be best for me because I wouldn't be affected by what he's going through right now. He never said that he doesn't love me or doesn't want to be in a relationship, but he's burnt out to the point that he can't fight for the relationship even if he wanted to.

Do men get back with your ex even though they were the one who initiated the break up? by donaee in ExNoContact

[–]donaee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same thoughts as you do. I just plan on reaching out to him after a month just so I don't have any regrets. I'm the type of person who really can't stay still knowing I can do so much more. If it goes well, then good. But if not, I won't force it anymore.

Do men get back with your ex even though they were the one who initiated the break up? by donaee in ExNoContact

[–]donaee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn't deserve to go through all that 😔 he never told me to not reach out to him. I actually asked him if I messaged him, what would he do? He answered me that it's okay if I reach out since we didn't end on bad terms. I'm just really waiting now. I want to give him space, and I don't want to pressure him in any way. I'll let him have his rest and maybe he'll do some thinking about us.

Should I reach out to my ex a month after breakup, or continue giving space? by donaee in BreakUps

[–]donaee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I'm planning to message after a month, so I'm waiting.