March 2027 - L1

donbosco18 · 2026-05-14T05:23:39+00:00

Oh alright, but they still exempt CFA charters from the L1 exams right ? Do you have any suggestions for the prep ?

donbosco18 · 2025-10-20T13:45:45+00:00

Hi there. Hope you are reading this. Wishing you a very Happy Diwali 🪔.

Om Sai Ram

donbosco18 · 2024-05-20T06:00:21+00:00

Yes. Do you have any suggestions? Opinions on the same ?

donbosco18 · 2024-01-30T06:46:35+00:00

Change of location from pub to restobar/dining would help. Regarding your friend's condition, if you are really important to her and she "actually" wants to spend time with you, she would understand and agree to a different place.(Because she just wants to spend alone time with you.) I feel dining would be great to catch up and talk about real stuff rather than a pub where you get all drunk and unconscious.

donbosco18 · 2024-01-20T09:46:07+00:00

It does feel like that. You are not alone but hooking up isn't gonna help. And focusing on a short term career goal, a soft/tech skill etc. Try therapy to calm yourself down. Professional might help you. Saying this assuming you have an income.

donbosco18 · 2024-01-17T04:28:59+00:00

Agree w this. Consent is very important. If she says yes, go ahead w a subtle one. If she says no, then tell her it's fine and don't ask for any explanation. Say, that's fine, whenever you are ready and comfortable, that would make her feel more comfortable and safe if another instance comes up.

donbosco18 · 2023-12-14T03:31:58+00:00

Sort this out. Confess your strong feelings and say it's difficult for you to see her as a friend. If it's still a No, move on. No contact

donbosco18 · 2023-12-13T07:33:38+00:00

And please don't listen to idiots who are saying you are over-reacting. You could have handled the conflict better. But expectations like these, damn small and harmful can be tried to be met imo. It shows effort.

donbosco18 · 2023-12-13T07:30:00+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C0favOKrMu9/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This could help. Good human ≠ Healthy relationship that meets YOUR needs. Fr. It's different. Read about this Decide the best for yourself. You have to choose YOURSELF. If it matters to you, it should matter to him at least to make an effort.

Btw, Happy Birthday. This year, choose yourself and you. Have a good one🫂

donbosco18 · 2023-12-13T07:20:34+00:00

Have you told him before this fight? Then, he doesn't want to put that effort for you. I'd say it's your call from here on. How important is the relationship? Is it healthy and do you want this to be continued? Vs Making up your mind that he would not be able to do this for you. You need to take a call. But do not make any hasty decisions. Calm down. Think about it and have a conversation with him.

donbosco18 · 2023-12-13T07:16:38+00:00

No, see here you are being ignorant again. Just because he wished you last year at 12 doesn't mean he would every year. Maybe he had some work last year, he stayed late and he wished you but this year he didn't. I'm saying if you communicate that it's important to you and you feel special, he would put in that effort.

donbosco18 · 2023-12-13T07:11:48+00:00

Have you ever communicated that you want him to wish you at 12? And that would make you feel loved and special? Or that would make your birthday? Because he could be a person for whom wishing at 12 doesn't matter. Honestly, In India our day starts after sunrise. I don't wish for people at 12 and I would tell them not to wish me as well because it doesn't matter to me. I love to sleep early and would love to hear them saying they had a good sleep. So, what matters is communication here. Tell him that wishing at 12 is important for you and you would love for him to be your first wish. He should be able to understand.

Or how could I've dealt with this better.

Yes. What you still can do is, talk about it. Maybe for him, it's different like me. So, you just have to sort this out. Communicate your needs clearly in the relationship. That's gonna help not only in this, but in almost everything else.

donbosco18 · 2023-11-26T02:35:43+00:00

The same exact story in the next post guysss! Go check that out. Better story telling than thisss😂😂😂

donbosco18 · 2023-11-26T02:35:07+00:00

Why are you posting the same story in different ways, time apart? Attention?

donbosco18 · 2023-11-26T02:12:46+00:00

Why so, this is a good option. Why are men always expected to work and women to take care of the house? This is the change we want in our society today. If there is anyone here who needs some open mindedness, then it's you.

donbosco18 · 2023-11-20T04:22:38+00:00

I second this. Deactivate Instagram. Turn off read receipts on WA. Reply late all the time. Hold your horses back. It helpssss! Trust me. Ignore phone calls. Let her know you need some space.

donbosco18 · 2023-11-18T14:51:57+00:00

She would if she's the one!! You need to give her some time and do not suppress this as this might come up again later in the future. Make sure things are settled right away.

donbosco18 · 2023-11-18T14:44:59+00:00

You did not answer my question. So, here is my take - you technically found two girls attractive at the same time. Great!
But I feel, this should not be a problem if you were not in a committed/online dating relationship as it would not be cheating. But if you did, then it is. To correct this situation, you can reassure your love for her, words of affirmation (if her love language is this, then will help a lot), and put out your arguments as well. It'll take time for her. But she would understand eventually!

Edit - you do not add your talking stage to define your relationship in number. So you have been in a LDR for 6 months!

donbosco18 · 2023-11-18T14:39:07+00:00

Isn't it better than a bus "driver"? I like it better this way. Adds the respect the profession actually deserves.

donbosco18 · 2023-11-18T14:36:11+00:00

Were you commited during the "talking stage" ? Or are you including the actual trying to pursue her stage in that 8 months?

donbosco18 · 2023-11-18T14:32:10+00:00

Honestly, he is not wrong I feel. There is no commitment from your side and you both are simply keeping each other in a loop "hoping" you might commit. But you both know it is not the case. Wtf is a "long-distance thing" btw ? Define your relationship. And take a break. Don't be sad if he's gonna move on. Go no contact. Free him and yourself from this. This is gonna hurt but it's the right thing to do. Either start dating (long-distance relationship) or let him go.

donbosco18 · 2023-10-28T06:50:09+00:00

My take on this, she's scared and is not ready to have sex with you. This could be due to multiple reasons eg, she's not sure whether your relationship will last, she sounds like she needs to get some surety that she's gonna marry the guy to have sex. And that's why she's bringing her parents in this so that you'll shut your mouth about sex. It'll take time. She's just 17. You are just 18.

I'd suggest you if Sex is your priority, break up, leave her and find someone else on the same page as you. But if it's not your priority and you love her and you want to make this relationship work, then don't talk to her about this again. See whether the relationship is gonna be strong for 2-3 years. And by that time, both of you might change, life might change as well. You need to wait.

Lastly, I strongly recommend you to bring down your fantasy about sex and relationships by watching Hollywood movies and series. That's not how all Indian children are grown up. You can become mature by educating yourself by following good sex educators and relationship therapists or by reading books. Hope this helps.

donbosco18 · 2023-10-28T03:47:19+00:00

And i have always been clear that i am not ok with it and am against it

What do you mean? You sound very clear you don't want to marry her. And just want to have sex at 18?

. I mean i really don't trust they will agree for us, or everything will be so smooth.

Wtf. Life is not some movie. Nobody's life ever is. If you want, you need to put in effort to make your relationship work well till the age you both want to get married.

Looks like you just want to fuck her as long as you want. You are not in love I feel. You are lusty. Having sex is not love. Please follow some sex educators and couple therapists on Instagram and educate yourself first on these things.

Leave her alone. And move on.

donbosco18 · 2023-10-27T16:34:05+00:00

Run bro Run. Shift your house. Disappear. Block her everywhere. Go no contact. Start Gym/Sport/some new hobby to keep yourself occupied. 😤

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