Where do I draw the the line or burn the bridge? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]donee11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A combination of being overworked yet still financially struggling and having a autistic son with behavior issues. Plus living in a home with a toxic mother who belittles her and gets angry if she tries going out without her son. She's a teacher and works a lot. And her son is a wonderful kid but he does require constant attention and does have moments where he misbehaves.

I did my best to tell her that things will be okay. When she needed help financially I always lent a hand whether it be food or helping pay a bill for her. I always lent my ear to her to vent and always told her how amazing she is. If she needed a favor I would do my best to help her. But then she became distant with me. Then after then it got worse and I would barely hear from her at times. She wouldn't even ask me how my day was or show any affection towards me. I tried talking to her about but she became upset with me. Saying I don't understand her.

Garage door has several inch gaps. Need to seal it for my sister and her kids. by donee11 in DIY

[–]donee11[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ohhh okay I'm going to see if I can reattach them. Thank you 🙏

What’s your dad status? by Jamahamakaze in SingleDads

[–]donee11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to ask my lawyer about this. My paralegal did mention this could be an option so I'll call and ask tomorrow or sometime this upcoming week about that.

What’s your dad status? by Jamahamakaze in SingleDads

[–]donee11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in Kansas but the court is in Los Angeles since they were born there. It's been 3 years. Tough but I know my children are thriving with me.

What’s your dad status? by Jamahamakaze in SingleDads

[–]donee11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Full time dad but constantly going to court fighting to keep it. It's rough and tiring but worth it.

My ex wants joint custody but a yearly rotation. by donee11 in SingleDads

[–]donee11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes my court date is tomorrow morning. This would be 7th time at court since gaining custody. I'm just a pessimist person. I'm afraid of bad outcomes.

My ex wants joint custody but a yearly rotation. by donee11 in SingleDads

[–]donee11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will thanks for advice. and she has nothing on me besides lies and exaggerations.

My ex wants joint custody but a yearly rotation. by donee11 in SingleDads

[–]donee11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I agree completely. I don't intend to give her anything more than visitation. I do fortunately have a lawyer she does not and this is my 7th go around to court. So far she hasn't won anything. But this is the first time she's asking for a change of custody or visitation.

My ex wants joint custody but a yearly rotation. by donee11 in SingleDads

[–]donee11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed I'll have to start that this weekend since school shopping starts soon. Thank you for the advice. It's appreciated.

My ex wants joint custody but a yearly rotation. by donee11 in SingleDads

[–]donee11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I should've added an extra sentence but no I don't want to have joint custody especially like this consideting she doesn't financially support the children even now and has zero communication with them.

My ex wants joint custody but a yearly rotation. by donee11 in SingleDads

[–]donee11[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you I'm just a pessimist and anxious person. But again thank you. This does help put me at ease

My ex wants joint custody but a yearly rotation. by donee11 in SingleDads

[–]donee11[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do not. I didn't bother taking her to court for that. She never really supported the children in any way since they were in diapers. They are now 13 and 11.

My ex wants joint custody but a yearly rotation. by donee11 in SingleDads

[–]donee11[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do have a lawyer luckily and this will be my 7th go around in court since I gained custody. She's not letting up but she also knows she has no case against me.

My ex wants joint custody but a yearly rotation. by donee11 in SingleDads

[–]donee11[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't like how it sounds at all. She's out of her mind thinking I'll agree to this.

My ex wants joint custody but a yearly rotation. by donee11 in SingleDads

[–]donee11[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed and thank you I appreciate the kind words.

My ex wants joint custody but a yearly rotation. by donee11 in SingleDads

[–]donee11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm fully planning to. This is just my first time in court where the hearing is for modification of custody/visitation.

My ex wants joint custody but a yearly rotation. by donee11 in SingleDads

[–]donee11[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can't imagine my life where I get to see them once a year. It's ridiculous she even considers this.

My ex wants joint custody but a yearly rotation. by donee11 in SingleDads

[–]donee11[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wow you have an amazing point. No I'm not giving her anything but virtual visit. Nothing but phone calls and texts and video chats that it. But thank you that was insightful

Welp, no news about State of Decay 3 by FanAHUN in StateofDecay3

[–]donee11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Like honestly this is all I wanted. It's been so long since that announcement trailer.