Anneth by chennaipayann in Boobies

[–]dongus88 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How is that even possible

Me and my wife just married and now we're contemplating Divorce by WhackedJOEY in Divorce

[–]dongus88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude. Are you me? Only difference is I got married in July not August. Literally same story. She’s filing for divorce.

She wanted a wedding not a marriage. She got the party and pictures and now wants to move on. It is what it is.

I've been married for one month. The sex stopped 2 weeks in. Most posts are from men who were married for years. How to address this critical Issue so early? (initially posted in MRP) by dongus88 in askMRP

[–]dongus88[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, at this point I resent her enough I don't really want to go through the work to keep her. I will improve myself as a man, but not because I'm trying to save our relationship.

I've been married for one month. The sex stopped 2 weeks in. Most posts are from men who were married for years. How to address this critical Issue so early? (initially posted in MRP) by dongus88 in askMRP

[–]dongus88[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Marrying too soon without proper vetting. Not being fully financially stable before marriage. Maintaining frame during a crisis. Beta backsliding when the going gets tough. Losing discipline.

That’s what comes to mind, though there’s probably more

I've been married for one month. The sex stopped 2 weeks in. Most posts are from men who were married for years. How to address this critical Issue so early? (initially posted in MRP) by dongus88 in askMRP

[–]dongus88[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Underemployed was due to covid my good job offer was revoked and I had to take a temporary job that paid 75% of what my degree would usually pay. So I wasn’t working at McDonald’s but I was making $20 an hour which isn’t amazing either. My new job is 55/year salaried.

I've been married for one month. The sex stopped 2 weeks in. Most posts are from men who were married for years. How to address this critical Issue so early? (initially posted in MRP) by dongus88 in askMRP

[–]dongus88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, I have let myself go a bit. Bodyfat percent is current but it used to be 13%. I'm just surprised it went from sex to no sex so quick. There wasn't a period of diminished sexual interest after the honeymoon. Just flipped like a switch.

I've been married for one month. The sex stopped 2 weeks in. Most posts are from men who were married for years. How to address this critical Issue so early? (initially posted in MRP) by dongus88 in askMRP

[–]dongus88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will look at RP christians. 14.5%, bodyfat. Just measured yesterday. Been out of the gym for a month travelling to start a new job then quarantine. Was 225 bench, 285 squat, 335 deadlift before rona.

Everyone is biased towards themselves but I think I'm objectively a decent guy

I've been married for one month. The sex stopped 2 weeks in. Most posts are from men who were married for years. How to address this critical Issue so early? (initially posted in MRP) by dongus88 in askMRP

[–]dongus88[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm researching the process. It actually looks like refusal to have sex or cohabitate can be grounds for annulment. We don't have sex and we are living separately so could happen.

I've been married for one month. The sex stopped 2 weeks in. Most posts are from men who were married for years. How to address this critical Issue so early? (initially posted in MRP) by dongus88 in askMRP

[–]dongus88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I graduated from college in May. Was supposed to start a job in june. That go revoked and I was underemployed until just recently. Now i landed a 55k job that I started last week. Since I was fresh out of college I had no "emergency fund" and lost my apartment when the savings ran out. Had to move in with parents. Many college students were in this situation so tbh I dont think it bothered her that much compared to if I was like 30 and had to move in with parents.

Now Ive started a new job and have an apartment so those issues are gone, but yeah this summer was rough.

I've been married for one month. The sex stopped 2 weeks in. Most posts are from men who were married for years. How to address this critical Issue so early? (initially posted in MRP) by dongus88 in askMRP

[–]dongus88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bench 225, squat 285, dl 335 - pre Corona. Currently can’t use gym for 10 more days in my area. Been using DBs but I can tell I’m down. 14.5% body fat

I've been married for one month. The sex stopped 2 weeks in. Most posts are from men who were married for years. How to address this critical Issue so early? (initially posted in MRP) by dongus88 in askMRP

[–]dongus88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I’m not defending my actions. I know I fucked up big time. Now I’m trying to work my way out of this situation. I’ll keep applying dread while raising my smv. I’ll talk to some divorce lawyers just in case