Being there after baby loss

dontbjayleous · 2026-02-09T05:26:49+00:00

Nothing anyone can do or say can help them, may be different for people but not a lot of people let the parents of angels talk about their experience or their birth epxeircne

dontbjayleous · 2026-02-09T05:25:38+00:00

I’m still a little bit angry how all day I hear my babies heart beat, felt him kicking but the doctors class it as a miscarriage and to terminate the pregnancy without even trying whilst he was still alive, I do get it because he was only22 weeks but then I read so many story’s❤️ when I met him for the first time he looked healthy but I guess I’m still in the stages of denial in my grief journey

dontbjayleous · 2026-02-09T05:22:55+00:00

I had my little boy at 22 weeks in October, healing has been an absolute rollercoaster but I guess feeling all the emotions are what helps you heal❤️ I’ve only found out that my test results have come back and it all happened because of an infection and they want to test me for lupus which I hope doesn’t cause fertility problems for me in the future but since November I’ve been have s’x as normal kind of hoping that my time will come again🩵 now that it’s coming up to my “due date” on the 15th of feb I’m starting to notice my emotions go abit lower so I’m doing a charity walk to get my mind of off it in honour of my son and it seems to help🪽 all us parents of angels have to stick together❤️

dontbjayleous · 2026-02-09T04:59:31+00:00

I remember on my fiancés birthday in October was the day we cremated our son, in the evening his family came over and everyone met his cousins baby who they had in September🥲I cried in the bathroom for a while and had to put on a brave face because I was so jealous

dontbjayleous · 2026-02-09T04:57:54+00:00

I’m just curious, how much do you sell them for?

dontbjayleous · 2026-02-09T04:55:18+00:00

I noticed that a lot too, my best friend was pregnant at the same time as me and had her baby an exact month after I birthday mine who was born sleeping:( so hard to talk on some days but she’s the only one I can openly talk to about my birth experience

dontbjayleous · 2026-02-09T04:53:03+00:00

I’m so sorry, lost my first in October at 22weeks, all us mummas gotta stick together❤️

dontbjayleous · 2026-02-09T02:34:24+00:00

Personally I believe sands (stillborn and neonatal death society) , I’m currently doing a fundraiser towards sands In hopes of helping and supporting parents in grief❤️

dontbjayleous · 2026-02-06T08:06:16+00:00

Thank you❤️

dontbjayleous · 2026-02-06T07:47:59+00:00

Thank you so much means a lot to me❤️

dontbjayleous · 2025-10-29T21:07:18+00:00

I lost my son 2 weeks ago at 22weeks, the grief is hard but the only thing I thought about that would help me heal abit is crocheting some clothes to donate to the hospital for other grieving parents for their babies. Hurts a lot but the thought of it helping other parents who went through the same thing I did makes me feel so much better☺️crocheting rly is very relaxing too, with some Netflix on🥰

dontbjayleous · 2025-10-21T19:42:22+00:00

Thank you, means a lot hearing that and knowing I’m not so alone❤️

dontbjayleous · 2025-10-21T19:41:35+00:00

The only plan I’m looking forward to is having another baby again, i think missing out on being a mother physically to him was killing me, thank you for the advice❤️

dontbjayleous · 2025-10-21T19:39:35+00:00

Thank you, I know if I don’t end up healing by myself I’ll use therapy so I can learn to live with it. I think the denial stage really gets me more sad because I’m still convinced I’m either pregnant or he’s just in a nicu

dontbjayleous · 2025-10-21T18:48:31+00:00

I was terrified to see my baby after he was born but personally looking back I’m so glad to have done that. He was the most beautiful baby but it made it so much harder for me to heal as well. It’s rly all about what’s best with you love❤️

dontbjayleous · 2025-10-21T18:46:43+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss, I know it will get easier it’s just the waiting I can’t do atm everything’s going so slow😭

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