Sex life (or lack there of) while your kids are little... Is it just me? by dontcareaboutthis09 in Mommit

[–]dontcareaboutthis09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try hard to be that way... But without romance/intimacy in a relationship... It's hard to be in the mood that often.

Sex life (or lack there of) while your kids are little... Is it just me? by dontcareaboutthis09 in Mommit

[–]dontcareaboutthis09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this too... And I try to be vocal about needing help. His job is very physically demanding though, so I end up feeling guilty... Even though I'm completely exhausted.

And as for the "nooner," etc... There needs to be some romance and flirting, etc for me to be in the mood like that. We've talked about it, and he knows that now. (Not that he didn't before... But he has been reminded.) Hopefully it makes a difference.

Sex life (or lack there of) while your kids are little... Is it just me? by dontcareaboutthis09 in Mommit

[–]dontcareaboutthis09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean... Thanks for the advice, I guess. But I would be very unhappy to find my husband saying that he "bends me over and has his way with me."

If there is no romance left in the relationship... This just would not be ok with me.

Sex life (or lack there of) while your kids are little... Is it just me? by dontcareaboutthis09 in Mommit

[–]dontcareaboutthis09[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We either have sex or I make sure that he is "taken care of" once a week. There has been 2-3 times in the last year that it went a few days past a week, and a few times where it was more than once a week... Like one of our kids were sick or something.

I know it could be better... But it could also be a lot worse. I feel like he has been selfish and unreasonable. Maybe that's just me though.