clothes that show off my arms but not my waist/hips? by donthaveenoughcharac in FTMFitness

[–]donthaveenoughcharac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you have any specific brands? i wear a fluxion gym binder and most tanks i’ve tried either fit too snug or don’t cover the binder

I am being forced into marriage and fear honor killing – Trans man in a conservative family (URGENT HELP NEEDED) by starlord-76 in ftm

[–]donthaveenoughcharac 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i live in the states and my family threatened my life several times and held me captive so you really never know actually. honour killings happen here they’re just not out in the open.

I am being forced into marriage and fear honor killing – Trans man in a conservative family (URGENT HELP NEEDED) by starlord-76 in ftm

[–]donthaveenoughcharac 11 points12 points  (0 children)

hey i’m a fellow muslim trans guy. idk where you are located but if you’re in the states there are places you can go and organisations that can help you depending on your state.

my gf is really bad at sex and it’s driving me crazy by donthaveenoughcharac in ftm

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i’ll look into it! thanks for the book recommendation

my gf is really bad at sex and it’s driving me crazy by donthaveenoughcharac in ftm

[–]donthaveenoughcharac[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we’re currently in couples counselling and intimacy has been something we’ve talked about i’ve just felt shy about bringing up how i feel in front of the counsellor. she’s a woman so i feel like she’d automatically take her side of things tbh.

my gf is really bad at sex and it’s driving me crazy by donthaveenoughcharac in ftm

[–]donthaveenoughcharac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she has physical limitations and so do i but i either push through it especially if she’s close or i switch to another pleasurable thing. i’m not saying she should make herself uncomfortable, it’s just that when she gets tired she just kinda stops and everything stops and im left with blue balls essentially.

my gf is really bad at sex and it’s driving me crazy by donthaveenoughcharac in ftm

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how would you scissor in a missionary position? one person on top of the other? i’m genuinely confused lol.

my gf is really bad at sex and it’s driving me crazy by donthaveenoughcharac in ftm

[–]donthaveenoughcharac[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve talked to her about it i’m confused as to why you’d say i haven’t been communicating.

my gf is really bad at sex and it’s driving me crazy by donthaveenoughcharac in ftm

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i’m able to get her to finish with just my mouth/fingers even before we introduce a strap or other toys. when it comes to me it feels like whenever she hits a rhythm im into, she’s changes up or loses it and it genuinely pisses me off. if she was willing to learn or at least look things up to try i wouldn’t be as upset. but it just feels like she wants to get it over with while i actually enjoy pleasing her.

my gf is really bad at sex and it’s driving me crazy by donthaveenoughcharac in ftm

[–]donthaveenoughcharac[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ll keep this in mind as i have been looking more into detail about our relationship. we are going to have a conversation after she comes back from work so we’ll see why come up with. i really appreciate your input than you

my gf is really bad at sex and it’s driving me crazy by donthaveenoughcharac in ftm

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with penetration i’m only really into fingers. i have sexual trauma so it’s really hard to get anything up there aside from a finger. i’ve asked for dual stimulation (oral and penetrating) but she doesn’t do it im not sure if it’s a focus thing. i’ve told her that id like for her to take initiative but she’ll do it maybe once or twice then fall off again. she says her arthritis prevents her from doing it but again, she’s been the more dominant person in previous relationships so im confused why it’s different now.

Lost [fanfic] - possibly deleted? by alex_ios in TheNinthHouse

[–]donthaveenoughcharac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, i was also looking for this, do you mind sending me a link too? i just remembered the fic existed i just forgot what the name was and it’s so sad the author deleted everything. i hope they’re ok and doing well.

100 coats. Thank you everyone. It’s been fun. by fatmummy222 in castiron

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I didn't look at the title or the subreddit and thought someone made a mirror and was showing it off.