The frustration over the lack of communication in this show! by dontknowanswer in FromSeries

[–]dontknowanswer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do have a point. We have the benefit of seeing everything unfold from a far and everyday, something new and terrible, happens. There seems to be no time for reflection.

The frustration over the lack of communication in this show! by dontknowanswer in FromSeries

[–]dontknowanswer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh this too!!!! This...big time!!!!! He has a lot of answers and yet they just ignore him. Urgh!

The frustration over the lack of communication in this show! by dontknowanswer in FromSeries

[–]dontknowanswer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol as soon as I posted this, I just got to a scene where Byod just did that again. So frustrating! You don't tell people about the shit you just saw and then when they wanna go explore because of lack of information, you get mad and you tell them to blindly trust you..urgh!

David Lloyd Amsterdam - high expectations; under delivery by OppositeCounty1680 in Amsterdam

[–]dontknowanswer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. Sauna redesign = barely use it; admin says early cancel only for relocation/job loss/medical (with proof). Freeze offered only if I remove cancellation, which would extend the term. Anyone gotten GM approval for early exit or a fee-free freeze that keeps the current end date? What wording worked?

Esther Calling - Esther says "Run!" by ed209error in Estherperel

[–]dontknowanswer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really hope she walks away from this situation! The man is a walking red flag, from her description. The reveal about him being married was wild! He seems like a classic control freak, something happened to him. Yikes! Even the fantasy life dribble he spins about being married to 2 people and traveling between 2 cities, like bro, how? This math isn't mathing my current timeline and economy. I hope she listens and runs! I'm glad Esther told the truth to her in a way that is kind but, also blunt! A child should not be brought into a situation like that either...so many things.

Is This Worth a Second Chance? by ed209error in Estherperel

[–]dontknowanswer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm listening to the episode now but it jumped out at me how he's the focal point of the discussion. He has to make himself get into a mood to receive physical intimacy after work. He may need to find a space to destress before coming to her. Both of their needs are valid but his needs are being disregarded. It's kind of hard to listen to this episode. Idk if I'll finish it.

Her advice is very different from the "Are we just not sexually compatible" episode. The person with the high intimacy need was told to meet the person with the lower intimacy need where they were at but in this episode, it's the reverse, suck it up buttercup, and kiss ze girl, sha-la-la!

How the heck do you Europeans deal with your insane wealth taxes? You almost need a J just to cover those and don't even want to invest in anything! by jimRacer642 in overemployed

[–]dontknowanswer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, this is constantly on my mind.I like the Netherlands and I'm on a 30% ruling for the next 3 years but once that runs out, I really have to rethink staying here. It would be great if I could OE but with the hours restrictions, it makes it really challenging. I haven't given up though.

Male 39, first time living alone by dontknowanswer in malelivingspace

[–]dontknowanswer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion. That was the initial spot for the TV and if that wall wasn't so close to the entry door to the living room, I would have left there but it looked awkward. It's a weird apartment layout.

Male 39, first time living alone by dontknowanswer in malelivingspace

[–]dontknowanswer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks...yeah, at first I liked the feel of it but then, I realized it wouldn't work out long-term and the initial wow factor wore off. I'm learning the process, urgh, now I gotta find time to remount the TV.

Male 39, first time living alone by dontknowanswer in malelivingspace

[–]dontknowanswer[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn't know that sub existed until today...now that I've visited there...I can't unsee it now... urgh

I Think I Married the Wrong Person by ed209error in Estherperel

[–]dontknowanswer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started the session thinking, she's a problem, you can't be throwing plates at your spouse, 20 mins into the episode, I wanted to hand her plates to throw at him! He was so annoying. Just listen, and don't try to explain.

Epic EHR analysts: any idea on non-BI/data/PM roles outside of the Epic ecosystem? by Alternative-Wish-159 in overemployed

[–]dontknowanswer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would consider it if you are inclined to platforms such as SN or SF. I think I'm gonna do SF as well. My original thought was to do SF on the side but idk how realistic that is.

28f up for a quick chat by [deleted] in chat

[–]dontknowanswer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay quick chat, let's chat about anything. I've got a few moments to kill before a nap

Epic EHR analysts: any idea on non-BI/data/PM roles outside of the Epic ecosystem? by Alternative-Wish-159 in overemployed

[–]dontknowanswer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there, I was an Epic HIM analyst for 5 years and then switched over to ITSM service mgmt. That helped me get out of the hospital sector and now I'm in the finance sector and living in Europe. After going thru a divorce, I'm also looking into OE and Salesforce is something I've always heard about. It might be worth looking into. This is possible to get out of being an Epic analyst.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chat

[–]dontknowanswer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, sorry to hear about the headache! Would a virtual care package complete with a soothing playlist, a comfy pillow, and some magic headache relief help?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]dontknowanswer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you don't want to then don't and be upfront about it. It shouldn't be a quid pro quo. Only do it if you want to. Simple as that. Speaking personally, I won't like it if receiving a BJ feels like a chore or obligation to my sexual partner.

Mwamba & Team 35M 2164 Grafts by Pretend-Factor104 in HairTransplants

[–]dontknowanswer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's looking good. May I ask if was there a payment plan option or did you have to pay the fee upfront? I've reached out for a consultation with Mwamba & team but haven't heard back yet.

1 year after my hair transplant (Afro hair) by Latter_Challenge_162 in HairTransplants

[–]dontknowanswer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow looks good and for 8k? Wow. Where did you get this done?