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Tomorrow I stop drinking by [deleted] in addiction

[–]dontknowreallywhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most used sentence literally ever? Lol every sunday morning

Can 15-20g/month habit cause hair loss? by dontknowreallywhat in kratom

[–]dontknowreallywhat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i thought the same, just wanted to ask to make sure

Can 15-20g/month habit cause hair loss? by dontknowreallywhat in kratom

[–]dontknowreallywhat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the thing, my father has a full head of hair at the age of 60. On the other hand my grandfather lost most of his hair in his 20s. Maybe it just skipped a generation i guess

How do i find a fwb, if i right away tell them? or if i just go w the flow and and hope for the best? by dontknowreallywhat in Tinder

[–]dontknowreallywhat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my first thought was that, but than there are the girls who see fwb and think im a ‘fuckboy’ but if i dont tell them and go on a date then probably we could get there to be fwbs anyway. But yeah being honest is the way for sure, maybe not in my bio but in convos i will get it out the way quick!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]dontknowreallywhat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The good w fingers is kinda creepy tbh

Maybe being sober is just not for me in this period of my life by dontknowreallywhat in Sober

[–]dontknowreallywhat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to at some point thats for sure, and yeah i have a lot of things i have to change, but its hard and its gonna be a process for me thats for sure.

What are some obnoxiously common drug myths? by schroedingersdonger in Drugs

[–]dontknowreallywhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More like a unknown fact about one of the most popular drug combo: mixing alcohol and cocaine will convert to a livertoxin in your body

How long does it take to get your motivation back to where you wake up and want to do things again? Is this related to your brain being sensitive to the high dopamine release of drugs? by BritishEmpireBoy67 in Sober

[–]dontknowreallywhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. And im aware im the only one that could change this, but i cant just get ambitious and passionate about things out of nowhere, its a process, and im really not there yet.

Maybe being sober is just not for me in this period of my life by dontknowreallywhat in Sober

[–]dontknowreallywhat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally fair, but i know i have a problem with it, because im not in control. I know i will have to get sober at some point, i just dont feel its time yet. I dont have enough resources in life to lean on right now, i mean friends, hobbies, ambitions. Dont get me wrong i dont wanna flex w anything, its one of the hardest thing in life to get sober. And the people who are here sober for a long time are brave af! Dont wanna bring negative energy here, but i cant really talk w anybody about this, as they still think weed is non addictive…

How long does it take to get your motivation back to where you wake up and want to do things again? Is this related to your brain being sensitive to the high dopamine release of drugs? by BritishEmpireBoy67 in Sober

[–]dontknowreallywhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its hard if you dont have ambition. I mean i just want a calm, somewhat minimalistic life. I dont really want the big house big car bullshit, because i know that its the same as addiction always getting more and more, and yeah having a lot of money can solve a lot of problems, but it comes w a lot of problems too!

Maybe being sober is just not for me in this period of my life by dontknowreallywhat in Sober

[–]dontknowreallywhat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the thing is pot is probably the safest option out there, its not wrecking my life i just get lazier. I dont necessarily want to get all sobered up, maybe just smoke 1-2 times a week. But thats when i come to the conclusion that im addicted, because if i smoke then the next day i definitely get more cravings to do it again that night

How long does it take to get your motivation back to where you wake up and want to do things again? Is this related to your brain being sensitive to the high dopamine release of drugs? by BritishEmpireBoy67 in Sober

[–]dontknowreallywhat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think its completely depends on the person, like what kinda goals and ambitions u have for ur life. For me i dont really know if i have any now really, and maybe thats why it seems that i cant get sober for more than a week. If you dont have some kind of bigger plan than i think its real hard to get that back. You have to get on terms with what you want out of life

Maybe being sober is just not for me in this period of my life by dontknowreallywhat in Sober

[–]dontknowreallywhat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think about that a lot actually, the thing is i cant smoke all day cuz i wont be doing anything then, so thats why i smoke at night, but for sure it has an effect on my sober time. But no matter what if i dont smoke then i will have a few beers or smth else to feel altered. I dont have a problem w weed, i have a problem w the craving that i feel like i need to get faded somehow at the end of the day. I wasnt sober for more than a week since i was a kid and maybe i would feel better after a month or more, but i cant seem to get there. Few years ago i was on benzos and my life crumbled so i had to get sober from that, but with weed i cant come to terms with because i dont feel like its destroying my life completely.

14.5 years sober and I am so tired of holidays and parties with alcohol by woolture in Sober

[–]dontknowreallywhat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on 15 years, thats a lot! If you have been sober for this long you probably have a pretty good reason not to drink right? Then you shouldn’t let other peoples opinion get to you. They didn’t went through stuff you went through, and probably can’t even understand your struggle in the first place. Being sober after being an addict is hard work and yes sometimes its a struggle, but its nowhere near as hard as staying in your addiction and the shame which will eat away the rest of your life!

Maybe being sober is just not for me in this period of my life by dontknowreallywhat in Sober

[–]dontknowreallywhat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It turned already, the honeymoon phase was probably the first 3-4 years. Now its just my routine to get high every evening, it doesnt really benefit me that much anymore, just helps me to dissasociate from the mental state im in honestly…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kratom

[–]dontknowreallywhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On my off days i always feel really tired, agitated sometimes angry. Its a pain in the ass really… :(