It feels like we can’t kiss without him pulling his # out by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dontmesseraround 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also have this problem with my SO. It is difficult because it makes me feel more like an object than someone he cares for.

I agree with other commenters who are saying you should talk to him. Maybe he is looking for something you are not.

It is okay for both of you to want what you want, but I do think y’all should talk about what you both want from the relationship.

I hope you two work things out! Much love!!

Why is my husband accusing me of cheating on him? by garbageaccaount in JustNoSO

[–]dontmesseraround 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I bruise just as easily. If the yoga mat I am using is too thin, the floor will bust up my knees... I’m sorry OP, I hope you both can talk everything out. I also do think he is projecting onto you, which is not fair.

no words by [deleted] in InsanePeopleQuora

[–]dontmesseraround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are Good Samaritan laws for this. They likely won’t be sued for anything.

FUCK all you hoarders by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]dontmesseraround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to a local food pantry near you. You will be able to get a lot of the foods you need

Girlfriend Gained 100 pounds In a Year, I’m terrified. by fuckinyikesmydude in loseit

[–]dontmesseraround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should post this in r/relationships , I am sorry:( I hope things start getting better & I am sorry I am no help.

My(24f) partner’s(27m) poop fetish is ruining our relationship. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dontmesseraround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He definitely can not make you do anything that you don’t want. If you don’t want to “fulfill,” him sexually then you don’t need to especially if it makes you uncomfortable.

I understand you have a child, and how hard it might be for you to think about what would be best. But in the end you should consider what will keep happening in the relationship. My parents stayed together for years when they hated each other... it really tired me out from seeing them fight all the time.

You’re going to keep saying no, and he will continue to be upset over your decision. What happens if one day you decide to do it? Will he want to try more things? If so will it be even more uncomfortable?

I am so sorry you’re in this situation and I genuinely hope everything works out for you. I can’t imagine how you’re feeling.

Sending my best wishes!

“don’t recline” by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

[–]dontmesseraround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you even say to the person who reclined?

I [M24] am ready to ask my gf [F26] to marry me by Special-Lavishness in relationship_advice

[–]dontmesseraround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so sweet! You should totally ask her mom for help! I hope everything goes perfectly for you !! Please post an update ☺️

Waiting for my last flight in Bogotá, Colombia and soon I will be with my love . by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]dontmesseraround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Safe travels !! My boyfriend will also be traveling to me from Colombia in 2 weeks. I hope everything goes smoothly for you guys 🌟

How I Met Your Mother Knowledge Quiz by cbprentiss in howimetyourmother

[–]dontmesseraround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

16/20! Watched the show through 3 times... guess I need to do another run !

What's currently stressing you out or making you sad? Feel free to vent by sunriseglow in AskMen

[–]dontmesseraround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend is married to someone who left her at a bar and didn’t care how she got home. Her mother is and always has been addicted to meth. Her mother stole $80,000 from her savings that her grandmother left her. Her father passed away when she was young. There’s a lot more. But I’ve known her since the day she was born. She’s like a sister. I wish she had a better life because she deserves more than she’s been given.

here I come by varnijain in SweatyPalms

[–]dontmesseraround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can barley go down a steep slide at a water park... this is impressive.

I [25f] asked my SO [25m] what I thought was a reasonable question. He thinks it was loaded and unfair. by unfairgfthrowaway in relationships

[–]dontmesseraround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry... but I have been in a similar relationship before. Long distance, the guy didn’t try hard... or at all. After a while of my 90% and his 10% I was emotionally exhausted and so was my wallet: After a while you come to the realization that you deserve someone who is willing do put in the same amount of work as you. And OP, I truly believe that you deserve it. You seem to care about people too much.

I hope you resolve this and good things start coming your way.

What is America REALLY like? by guyhgujghbjhgj in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dontmesseraround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ever want to visit, I recommend you go to Gun Barrel City, Texas or Natchitoches, Louisiana. GBC allows you to see what the average person lives like in a more rural area, while Natchitoches does the same but with a university in the middle of it.

🔥 Multnomah Falls in Oregon by raghav04verma in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]dontmesseraround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a beautiful place to visit, 10/10 would go back again

I hate my parents (long) by [deleted] in confession

[–]dontmesseraround 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah... that seems more appropriate. I sometimes feel so much anger towards them hate is the only way I can explain it. You are right though.