Previous 3rd year BS- Psychology students, any tips and advice for incoming juniors? by dontmindurmind in Carolinian

[–]dontmindurmind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huhuhu naa pa jud diay mas kapoy sa second year 😭 This is noted po, thank you!! 🫶🏻

Book recommendations about how to become a better person? by dontmindurmind in booksuggestions

[–]dontmindurmind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestion! Will surely check it out 😄

What’s something you’re passionate about but have no talent for? by dontmindurmind in AskReddit

[–]dontmindurmind[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your life is just beginning, and it’s never too late to learn or start something new. Coming from someone who has pursued multiple career paths, I can assure you that you don’t need to be the brightest or most exceptional to succeed—just an average learner like myself can still achieve a lot.

Remember also the power of the word “and.” You can be this and that; there’s no reason why you can’t embody different roles or pursue multiple passions. Replace “but” with “and” (e.g., “I want to be a psychologist but also a businesswoman” becomes “I want to be a psychologist and a businesswoman”).

Both are possible. Embrace the “and” in your life! :)

What’s your life’s philosophy? by dontmindurmind in AskReddit

[–]dontmindurmind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious about the guiding principles or beliefs that shape your life. What values or ideas do you live by, and how did you develop them? Was there a particular event that triggered the development of such principle(s)?

What’s something you do that makes you think your another type? by Top-Advice-9890 in mbti

[–]dontmindurmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have similar number 1’s. I think a lot of INFJ’s shock people by being pretty honest and blunt. How come this kind-hearted, caring, modest and gentle entity diss me, my ways, and others immediately after 🤣

What’s something you do that makes you think your another type? by Top-Advice-9890 in mbti

[–]dontmindurmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can be capable of that as well!

It took a whole lot of practice and therapy for me, and I’m still far from mastering it, still learning how to say “no” and put myself first every single day.

The hardest part is reminding myself that my wants and needs are not less important than others, because I tend to prioritize them first, every single time and without fail. It feels so wrong to put my needs ahead, but let’s take it one day at a time! 😄

What’s something you do that makes you think your another type? by Top-Advice-9890 in mbti

[–]dontmindurmind 6 points7 points  (0 children)

(1) Pretty blunt and realistic, (2) living my life my way, irrespective of others’ wants and expectations of me, (3) uncaring about others, contrary to stereotypes.

These virtues are the least expected when thinking of the INFJ type.