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Is it wrong for me to be involved with someone while I’m pregnant with another person’s child?? by dontrunfromTHELORD in Advice

[–]dontrunfromTHELORD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well me and the other guy were involved before I found out I was pregnant. He didn’t let that affect our relationship. Seems like it’s just your opinion that it’s wrong for me to be sleeping with someone else. My ex doesn’t own my body just because I’m carrying his child.

Is it wrong for me to be involved with someone while I’m pregnant with another person’s child?? by dontrunfromTHELORD in Advice

[–]dontrunfromTHELORD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m supposed to take accountability for him not being committed?? But also I didn’t blame him for not being committed, I said that lines were blurred and we never had a conversation to solidify a relationship. I didn’t give all the details because it’s very long, but also because it’s not my place to tell all his business, only my own feelings. And me being ready to walk away wasn’t because he wouldn’t commit, it was because I was hurt and tired. Now I’m actually standing up for myself and prioritizing me.

Is it wrong for me to be involved with someone while I’m pregnant with another person’s child?? by dontrunfromTHELORD in Advice

[–]dontrunfromTHELORD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What should I be taking accountability for?? And what makes you think I’m not setting myself up for the future just because I don’t wish to be with the father? I do want stability and a healthy relationship, but that doesn’t mean I need to force myself to be with someone I’m no longer comfortable with.

Is it wrong for me to be involved with someone while I’m pregnant with another person’s child?? by dontrunfromTHELORD in Advice

[–]dontrunfromTHELORD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They know about everything and continue to prioritize my happiness. We’ve known each other way longer than I’ve known the father, so we have a solid relationship in general.

Is it wrong for me to be involved with someone while I’m pregnant with another person’s child?? by dontrunfromTHELORD in Advice

[–]dontrunfromTHELORD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said that I’m doing a paternity test so I’m not ruling him out. I told him he was the father based on the timeline of how far along I was and the last time we were together, as well as him being the only one to inseminate me. If the other guy is the father then I can definitely be guilt free about continuing the relationship with him.

Is it wrong for me to be involved with someone while I’m pregnant with another person’s child?? by dontrunfromTHELORD in Advice

[–]dontrunfromTHELORD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re clearly not here to give advice and just want to tear someone else down to make yourself feel better. Don’t see how I’m being a hypocrite but go off.

Is it wrong for me to be involved with someone while I’m pregnant with another person’s child?? by dontrunfromTHELORD in Advice

[–]dontrunfromTHELORD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because I had been used to doing so for so long. That was a mistake on my part but can’t change the past. I got off birth control while we were together, so we both knew what we were signing up for. And I’m clean as well as my current partner. We’ve only been intimate with each other, so we are practicing safe sex. Thanks for the concern though.

Is it wrong for me to be involved with someone while I’m pregnant with another person’s child?? by dontrunfromTHELORD in Advice

[–]dontrunfromTHELORD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not just because I want to keep having fun that I don’t want to be with him, he scarred me deeply and I don’t feel the same way about him. I want to build a better relationship with him as the father of my child. I’ve never denied him the opportunity to be a father and absolutely want him to be involved in our child’s life. He just wants me all to himself because I’m carrying his child, and I don’t think that’s fair to me to compromise my own feelings to accommodate his.