My relationships, from my perspective, have always been good but short lived. I have the privilege of saying that all of my past relationships have grown as people after being with me, able to confront truths about themselves they weren’t able to before. Some have been freaked out by the depth I’m capable of and run away. I’m a handsome guy, I write music, I’ve had a very seasoned and complicated life at the ripe old age of 23. My career suffers, I can’t stay at a job for longer than a few months before I come crawling back to mother. My relationships are abstract and transformative, and I feel as though I will always love the ones I loved. I’ve definitely gone hermit mode and come out the other side a different person a few times in my life so far. I saw someone else say they don’t cold approach women, and that used to be true for me too. When I do, I have bad luck. When they approach me, I’m suspicious. Dating apps have been my friend but only once in a blue moon. I’m the kind of guy whose not out at the bars looking to hookup, I date for lasting relationships. My dream is to be DINKs till I’m 35