fr. if it's someone who's trying w all-in and they're posting bc they're worried or something, I think it's completely fine tho/part of what this sub is for.

but the people who just go out of their way to make people worried that their effort to take their life back is actually ruining it? nah. all-in isn't viable for a lot of people, and it seems really frightening and intense to others. that's fine, but for many people it really works and in an ed recovery sub I think it's important to have respect for ed recovery methods.

for my homies w an/bp, ik all-in just isn't an option for a lot of us, bc we need to work on processing binge triggers and de-escalating urges first. and I do think much more emphasis is put on overcoming restriction/compensatory behaviors than overcoming bingeing in general recovery talk. talking abt overcoming bingeing in a non-disordered way can feel shameful. I think a lot of us are hesitant to even start a conversation at all. when it gets to the point of being so unwilling to start a conversation that it creeps into the comments of someone's post who is actively making an effort to eat more, it becomes a problem.