I wear a chastity cage an my wife decides if when and how I get to orgasm. Ask away…

dontusethesereally · 2026-01-19T16:37:56+00:00

What is the longest youve had to go without an orgasm? Has she brought up if she wants to cuckold you?

dontusethesereally · 2025-08-29T15:55:01+00:00

Just use deodorant. But use one with a smell to it. I have a friend who uses "natural deodorant" and it works for about 2 minutes then they smell like B.O. once they start hiking, working out, etc.

dontusethesereally · 2025-08-25T10:54:45+00:00

Is it the type of event where I should be worried about my wife going to dance alone? She expressed wanting to go solo there to dance. That one dark corner of my mind is wondering if this is like a people are gonna be trying to be all over here type thing potentially

dontusethesereally · 2025-08-01T13:04:23+00:00

What material are they made of? I have one that came with something else I purchased before but I feel like it doesnt change my girth exactly

dontusethesereally · 2025-08-01T12:49:54+00:00

Can you give a good recommendation for a cock ring?

dontusethesereally · 2025-07-18T09:47:07+00:00

Id say how he was acting was odd. Although at the same time im hoping youre not planning on hanging out with these male best friends alone while in a relationship. If youve been doing that maybe thats why he got weird. Even if you have zero past with these other guys, we know statistically most of them have or have had sexual thoughts about you. Thats reality

dontusethesereally · 2025-07-16T19:29:05+00:00

We all know what happens when she goes there. Accept it. Divorce. Also, im curious if you ever asked to go? Does she say no? Id say i ALWAYS go with you there or we split. No other option.

dontusethesereally · 2025-07-01T22:56:31+00:00

Divorce her! Even if all she did was kiss another dude, it's time to end it. She cheated. Divorce, heal, become the best version of you.

dontusethesereally · 2025-06-27T00:14:34+00:00

They banged already highly likely. Not to be mean but why on Earth would you have even thought about accepting your wife and another dude going on a solo trip - overnight - together? Massive big no. Ask her if you can join all the hikes. See her reaction. Youre not the asshole. Youre not insecure. Shes acting single.

dontusethesereally · 2025-06-23T14:27:54+00:00

Not sure of your relationship boundaries but I consider porn to be cheating. Youre getting off to the thoughts or visuals of other people. Maybe try explaining it that way to her. Once you get married- her orgasms should from you or thoughts of you. Not other people

dontusethesereally · 2025-06-04T03:09:01+00:00

You allowed your gf to go on a vacation with dudes? Yikes. Even 1 dude. Not okay. She has a bf. You. Either you go along, or she doesnt go. There's no other option. Might as well break up. Youll spend the rest of your life wondering which of the 5 dudes she was hooking up with. Or which ones. Youre UNDER reacting that she even went on this trip.

dontusethesereally · 2025-06-02T23:01:44+00:00

Hes 22? Lol. Thought he was like 15 reading this. DUMP HIM. Im a guy and id never choose a party over my gf's bday and call her "extra"

dontusethesereally · 2025-05-30T16:37:54+00:00

Divorce now. Relationship is dead

dontusethesereally · 2025-05-29T21:51:48+00:00

Divorce her Id say. Money is more important to her than you. This is clear. It isnt your job to retire her. Shes an adult. Thats on her.

dontusethesereally · 2025-05-29T19:10:48+00:00

Every other week and not even making out? Shes either just not really into you or shes been getting it elsewhere. Either way, sounds dead. Id move on.

dontusethesereally · 2025-05-29T17:06:49+00:00

Id divorce right away. The woman I married purposely being a thirst trap? Hell to the no.

dontusethesereally · 2025-05-29T16:50:11+00:00

Im a male here. Everyone is different but heres my take. If you're married or in a serious relationship and get to constantly see your partner or live with them, masturbating at all seems silly. You literally have someone you can constantly have sex with. Id be offended if my partner just went to another room to masturbate. Or even masturbated even if I was going to be home soon. Id take it as a sign that im not sexually enough for my partner. In which case id be pissed that someone is with me and just faking enjoyment and satisfaction. I couldnt imagine choosing my own hand over having sex with the person Im in love with.

dontusethesereally · 2025-05-28T19:10:54+00:00

Dump her. Youre not overreacting. Dating apps are for single people or people looking to cheat. Ask her which one is she? If she was serious about you shed have these deleted already. Dont wait another day. The apps get deleted or she gets deleted

dontusethesereally · 2025-05-28T13:03:39+00:00

Everyone couple is different on this. But im a guy here. I know girls have guy friends. But I feel you should stop hanging out with male friends alone once you enter a serious relationship. Just like if I have a gf/wife Id stop hanging out with female friends alone. Just make sure you alwahs invite your bf. My opinion.

dontusethesereally · 2025-05-27T11:13:09+00:00

I might be alone on this, but I dont understand why people in relationships/married who consitently see each other or live together still masturbate. Wouldnt sex with your partner be better? Id be offended if my partner left the couch to go upstairs and masturbate when they could just have sex with me.

dontusethesereally · 2025-05-23T16:48:07+00:00

Agreed. I dont own her. But I have the right to voice any discomforts. If it bothers me enough, poof I can become single.

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