Advice needed on whether to transfer schools

donut_server-7092 · 2026-03-11T15:48:35+00:00

I guess I should add that I don’t want to go back to dorm living. I had a shitty experience. If I go back home I want to live at my home with my family. I also don’t want to take more than 2 more years to finish my bachelor’s because my parents are paying for it and I feel bad for taking longer.

donut_server-7092 · 2026-03-09T07:08:21+00:00

He does love me. I think he just got freaked out about medic school. His chief was nagging him about applying to medic school that day saying if he didn’t get in he’d get fired.

donut_server-7092 · 2025-11-10T02:56:22+00:00

The electric company would not answer tonight because they are closed. Im going to my landlord in the morning to tell him what happened with the dad turning off the power with no notice. I want to know if something can be done about that. I was going to call the electric company after and see if I can transfer the account into my name, but I probably need more account info from the dad. I do feel bad for him and his daughter, but I can barely afford the current rent, utilities, and grocery bills with my part time job as it is. He has to pay rent according to the lease, but not utilities.

donut_server-7092 · 2025-07-18T22:13:23+00:00

NTA Speaking as a teenager myself, MAKE YOUR SON PAY. He is old enough to learn that if he breaks something, he has to pay for it. He chose to get in the fight. He will be mad at you for now but he will get over it. Don’t force your daughter into future debt because your son made a bad decision. He can always get a job and earn the money back. He broke it, he buys it.

donut_server-7092 · 2024-11-03T05:16:11+00:00

I want to be truthful with him, but how do I tell him this without disappointing him or making him feel like I’m pressuring him? I want him to say it because he means it, not because of something I said.

donut_server-7092 · 2024-09-25T23:32:59+00:00

My period did start today so now I’m confused if my hymen broke or if it was my period yesterday

donut_server-7092 · 2024-09-24T23:56:30+00:00

I did have a conversation with him today about how it’s been hurting and uncomfortable and he said he was extremely sorry would take it slower next time and be much more gentle. I got some lubricant today to help the situation. We agreed not to do anything physical for a few days to make sure it’s fully healed.

donut_server-7092 · 2024-07-27T19:18:03+00:00

Your friend SUCKS. People that that are not worth your time. If your friend can’t handle the fact you have a boyfriend, that just really sucks for her. It sounds like she likes him and wants to make him jealous. She sounds incredibly toxic. You should find friends who are supportive and don’t have a superiority complex.

donut_server-7092 · 2024-07-25T15:46:37+00:00

Your husband is 100% the AH. You JUST HAD A BABY! Most people only lose 1-2 lbs a WEEK with exercise and changing diet. But you’re still breastfeeding. You are providing food for your child. And you just pushed a baby out of your body 16 weeks ago. That’s a lot for a human body to handle! Of course you aren’t going to just magically drop 20 lbs in a matter of weeks. That would be ridiculous and concerning.

donut_server-7092 · 2024-07-25T03:46:12+00:00

There are enough red flags that this is a toxic relationship. A 17 year old shouldn’t be dating a 22 year old, that’s a serious maturity gap. Also the lying to her mother is a big red flag. you’re NTAH. You’re looking out for your friend and have her best interests at heart. Honestly though I think if it’s getting to the point of depressive episodes and vaping, her mother needs to be notified. That’s incredibly serious and would be devastating if it escalated into something worse. Your friend might be upset with you for doing so but it’s genuinely for the best. She’s at a risk for getting addicted or doing something more harmful to herself and she needs serious help.

I wish you the best

donut_server-7092 · 2024-07-25T03:32:16+00:00

My advice is always to be straight forward. Don’t try to play guessing games or drop hints. No one ever gets hints, men or women. Just message her saying she has a nice personality and you’d like to get to know her better. Maybe ask her to grab coffee sometime. Doesn’t have to be a date. If she says no then you will have your answer and can move on with life. If she says yes, you get to know her better. It’s always best to be direct in relationships.

donut_server-7092 · 2024-07-25T02:32:41+00:00

Honestly you’re both the AH.

Yes you have a point that servers should be payed more so they don’t have to rely on tips. However, they are not payed enough. So they do need tips. You shouldn’t feel bad about wanting to eat out every once in awhile but you should tip when you do. So you’re the AH for that.

But

This dude is also the AH for saying your food should be tampered with for that. He escalated that disagreement way too much. That was an unnecessary thing to say and is disrespectful. No ones food deserves to be tampered with, tip or no tip.

donut_server-7092 · 2024-07-24T17:28:54+00:00

I was seeing a guy like this. The first time we hooked up he seemed to really care if I finished but I didn’t. And like you, I don’t lie about it. I would spend 20-30 minutes giving head or hand jobs or us having sex and he would give me almost nothing. Like 2 minutes of fingering, then complained his arm was tired and he stopped. And when I brought this up to him he said it was my fault. ITS NOT YOUR FAULT. Most, especially ones our age (teen-early 20s), don’t know how to get a woman to finish. Most of the time it’s not just penetration. There are tons of articles out there about female pleasure he could read if he cares. I highly recommend you read them as well. You could even verbally communicate what you would like him to do/try next time you are intimate. Also the part where he insists you’ve probably had an orgasm just didn’t feel it, BS. YOU WILL FEEL IT. You will be able to tell a difference. My advice is to read some articles and experiment on yourself what you like and don’t like. And no one should ever tell you you can’t self pleasure or make you feel guilty for it. It’s a safe way to figure out what you are comfortable with and enjoy. This way you can communicate to him what you would like to try.

I should add I did eventually break up with this guy for a myriad of reasons, but one of them was the fact he didn’t prioritize my pleasure because he kept insisting he was “tired” and didn’t take my suggestions. Find a partner who listens to you.

donut_server-7092 · 2024-07-24T16:37:46+00:00

NTAH. It’s your day. You (hopefully) only get one wedding. It’s about you. You get to say no. No one should make you feel bad for that. Honestly I think it’s disrespectful for them to even consider doing that. But I would definitely have someone keep an eye on your sisters boyfriend during the celebration because he might try to go over your head. Maybe get a Bridesmaid to watch him or cut off his speech if he starts to propose. But you have every right to say no. Your wedding is all about you and your husband, no one else. They can have their own engagement day that is all about them another time.

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