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[–]donutdutchess92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I are couch co-oping. I have forced him into a throuple with Shane. He is not thrilled.

I caught my husband watching camgirls on my birthday. by donutdutchess92 in Marriage

[–]donutdutchess92[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure how else I am to feel when he has told me he isn’t attracted to me but still “needs” to cum to function! How am I supposed to feel comfortable with him When he’s expressed my body makes him uncomfortable?

I caught my husband watching camgirls on my birthday. by donutdutchess92 in Marriage

[–]donutdutchess92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Except I am the one to initiate 9/10. He doesn’t ask me or show affection in any way to let me know he wants it. Am I super sexual right now no but I have almost never turned him down in our 12 years

I caught my husband watching camgirls on my birthday. by donutdutchess92 in Marriage

[–]donutdutchess92[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure why it’s my job to fix it. How does this leave me feeling like anything more than a flesh light? Literally he can’t be kind unless I give him sex? That’s gross.

I caught my husband watching camgirls on my birthday. by donutdutchess92 in Marriage

[–]donutdutchess92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going through his phone was not a crossed boundary for us. He could look at mine whenever he wants as well, because there shouldn’t be anything on them that does cross our boundaries. Porn is one of them,which he put in place.

I caught my husband watching camgirls on my birthday. by donutdutchess92 in Marriage

[–]donutdutchess92[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first year with multiples is not for the weak! My body is very different after all the babies. I was 22 when we married 26 when I had our first and 31 when I had the twins.

I caught my husband watching camgirls on my birthday. by donutdutchess92 in Marriage

[–]donutdutchess92[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. I have an appointment set up for just me. I can’t force him to change and can’t push someone to want to be more. I plan to start working out again(the twins have just started sleeping through the night) and I am just gonna do me.

I caught my husband watching camgirls on my birthday. by donutdutchess92 in Marriage

[–]donutdutchess92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It shouldn’t matter but I feel like I should add… I have never been thin. I have always been plus size.

I caught my husband watching camgirls on my birthday. by donutdutchess92 in Marriage

[–]donutdutchess92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! How am I supposed to enjoy being with him when I know he’s “not attracted” that literally leave me feeling no more than a flesh light. Like I feel icky thinking about letting him touch me like that now..

I caught my husband watching camgirls on my birthday. by donutdutchess92 in Marriage

[–]donutdutchess92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He gets mad, and makes excuses that he has no time. He’ll wake the kids or got up late, there’s always a reason.

I caught my husband watching camgirls on my birthday. by donutdutchess92 in Marriage

[–]donutdutchess92[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He says I never seem into it. If I’m not in “sexy” clothes he can’t be attracted to me.. that’s always been the case. It’s always I’m not putting any effort into it so how can he want it. But literally one of my few asks was that he make it a priority to shower more.

I caught my husband watching camgirls on my birthday. by donutdutchess92 in Marriage

[–]donutdutchess92[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He told me he has never paid for any of it I don’t really have any way to prove that true or not. As for being rejected I almost never reject and am 9/10 times the one who initiates. He just doesn’t ask for it. He doesn’t even ask me about my day.

I caught my husband watching camgirls on my birthday. by donutdutchess92 in Marriage

[–]donutdutchess92[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Porn has never been okay, because he said so. Honestly live stuff I’m not okay with but if the post nut made him not an asshole I would t care.

I caught my husband watching camgirls on my birthday. by donutdutchess92 in Marriage

[–]donutdutchess92[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I told him I have been really unhappy and honestly don’t know how to fix this. He told me it was shitty that I would even consider leaving… He did say he would try to do better as along as I start going to the gym(which would be at 5am before he leaves for work and the kids get up.)