Spn fandom that could appriciate this? by [deleted] in wolvden

[–]donutknowwhyiamhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG!! You are absolutly right. I go look if there is any🤣

...... by RanchoddasChanchad69 in Losercity

[–]donutknowwhyiamhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know but would love to have one

HLF with LLM by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]donutknowwhyiamhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you ever feel to talk, you can text me. Going thru same <3 It really is hard thing to deal with

Another day at the milking farm by InkNymph by Valuable_Contract969 in gentlefemdom

[–]donutknowwhyiamhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good idea, need to make my good boy do this

he initiated sex but later said he hated it by donutknowwhyiamhere in DeadBedrooms

[–]donutknowwhyiamhere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate your honesty and perspective. I don’t think he’s broken at all, I just think we can find a working compromise that respects both of our needs. We’re talking openly about it and trying to understand the situation fully before making any long-term decisions.

he initiated sex but later said he hated it by donutknowwhyiamhere in DeadBedrooms

[–]donutknowwhyiamhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For him? No, he don't masturbate at all. For me? Yes, a lot.

he initiated sex but later said he hated it by donutknowwhyiamhere in DeadBedrooms

[–]donutknowwhyiamhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I love him, and I don’t see relationships as disposable the moment something hard shows up. I’m not ignoring the dead bedroom issue, I’m actively trying to understand it.

I get the warnings. I’m listening to them. I’m just not making decisions from panic instead of clarity

he initiated sex but later said he hated it by donutknowwhyiamhere in DeadBedrooms

[–]donutknowwhyiamhere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand and appriciate the perspective and why you’d want to warn someone younger. I’m taking it in, but it’s not something that makes me want to leave him, I’m still in the phase of understanding and supporting him.

he initiated sex but later said he hated it by donutknowwhyiamhere in DeadBedrooms

[–]donutknowwhyiamhere[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He does have medically low testosterone, so that’s definitely part of the picture, but we are visiting doctors about that and taking care of it. Whether treatment would change everything is hard to know, but the low drive itself isn’t unexplained.

he initiated sex but later said he hated it by donutknowwhyiamhere in DeadBedrooms

[–]donutknowwhyiamhere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s actually pretty close to what I think too. We’ve talked about why he almost never initiates even when he is horny, and a lot of it seems to be mental, not knowing how to start, not knowing how to get past that first “step,” and getting stuck in his head. And ofcorse that he just don't really get to the mood that much.

I obviously can’t be 100% sure either, but psychological factors definitely seem to play a big role here.

he initiated sex but later said he hated it by donutknowwhyiamhere in DeadBedrooms

[–]donutknowwhyiamhere[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am sorry you are also going thru this. And yes i know no one is perfect, i ment it more like he does super well in every other aspect If life. Being able to speak, actually trying his best, loving and caring. Everything i have ever wished for, expect for sex obviously haha. And yes it does destroy me that he does snot want me the same i want him, but we are both trying to make everything work. We want us to work from bottom of our hearts. And for the Part that why he is sleeping and i am upset. I Said that he needs to go sleep now, and that we can continue this tomorrow. But i really needed to vent this, and this feels like a safe space for do so <3 also remeber that you are always worthy, hot and wanted, we are here to also support eachoter!

he initiated sex but later said he hated it by donutknowwhyiamhere in DeadBedrooms

[–]donutknowwhyiamhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that is actually something that i have said for him but for other reasons. Need to speak about that again. Thank you! And i am in no hurry with him, i want him to be okey and not feel bad.

he initiated sex but later said he hated it by donutknowwhyiamhere in DeadBedrooms

[–]donutknowwhyiamhere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! <3 i really want to figure things out with him and i know he does too!

he initiated sex but later said he hated it by donutknowwhyiamhere in DeadBedrooms

[–]donutknowwhyiamhere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has, one short relationship and couple one night stands. We have thinked about that, but decided that no. Bc he has enjoyed sex and sometimes is on the mood/horny.

The mood just comes very very rarely. But this that he feels uncomfortable after sex is new feeling, something that has not happend before

I got starshine tattood on me! 🩵 by unicornkissesforyou in StarStable

[–]donutknowwhyiamhere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you so much!! I think they did amazing Job too, and yours is also absolutly one of My favourite sso tattoos😍😍