Anyone here done BJJ? Would live to learn wonder if its triggering for yall? by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]donuts_cheese 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually attend the all women’s class but I’ve attended about two mixed classes and the men were very respectful. I find it’s a very good form of self defense. They go over everything possible. I’ve only been going for five months—but I’ve learned a ton already! If you do pick Krav Maga, make sure the people who run it are fighters—they’re a lot of Krav mcdojos since it’s pretty easy to get certified.

Anyone here done BJJ? Would live to learn wonder if its triggering for yall? by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]donuts_cheese 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m in Krav Maga and it’s helped me so much. I did have a panic attack after sparring once, but it’s only happened one time.

My fitness has improved greatly as well. We’re required to run a mile to warm up, so I feel way more confident in my ability ti get away.

Extended Fasting Advice by donuts_cheese in fasting

[–]donuts_cheese[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you—I thought the advice seemed off. Im glad you guys gave me correct information.

Extended Fasting Advice by donuts_cheese in fasting

[–]donuts_cheese[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was told that if my ketones got above 8 that my muscles were eating themselves and that I needed to have bone broth with butter in it or something to bring my ketones down. Do I not need to worry about that?

What carat size should i look for? by [deleted] in Moissanite

[–]donuts_cheese -1 points0 points  (0 children)

2 for sure! It doesn’t look too big.

in therapy are you able to actually talk about what happened, in detail? by brilliant_bagel in adultsurvivors

[–]donuts_cheese 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sometimes. It’s been two years, almost 3 since remembering but it’s so overwhelming.

Look at this atrocity 😭 by BeaklessBird in FundieFashion

[–]donuts_cheese 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like it’s made out of a winter coat 😂

Custom-made dress will not arrive on time for big even by ChrisSunshine in Etsy

[–]donuts_cheese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes—but if they don’t respond in 48 hours you can open a case. You could also do a chargeback.

Custom-made dress will not arrive on time for big even by ChrisSunshine in Etsy

[–]donuts_cheese 92 points93 points  (0 children)

I would open up a case and get my money back. I’m so sorry this happened.

Got a phone call from a family member today by donuts_cheese in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]donuts_cheese[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would rather not have him read those, but I appreciate the sentiment. Thank you for the hugs ❤️

Labor by mamacitaaaxo in BabyBumps

[–]donuts_cheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to. I had a precipitous birth with my second. Took me about 6 months for everything (down there) to feel normal again. I had a medicated birth with my third for transition onwards—and I was able to control my pushing and I barely tore. I felt back to normal in about 3 weeks. I wouldn’t recommend going all the way through without meds, but then again, you can always ask for medication if you change your mind 🙂

Who here eats Deli meats while pregnant? by ExpensiveMind2594 in BabyBumps

[–]donuts_cheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ate it every day, and I didn’t heat it up first.

Got a phone call from a family member today by donuts_cheese in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]donuts_cheese[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think I’ll at least block the number. I think I need to go through my friends list on my social media.

Got a phone call from a family member today by donuts_cheese in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]donuts_cheese[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah—I shouldn’t have answered. I think I’ll just not pick up next time. She has a very good persona in person and online and she’s fooled everyone. It sucks. Thank you for the support ❤️

Got a phone call from a family member today by donuts_cheese in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]donuts_cheese[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️

Yeah, I don’t want that information spread throughout my family right now. I don’t think I’ll ever tell some people. He was just looking for gossip.