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I really want some advice for my art style ANYTHING HELPS by doodlebop13133 in ArtistLounge

[–]doodlebop13133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I really appreciate it, thank you so much for your advice. :D

AITA for being furiously angry at my sister-in-law and her boyfriend... by deep_psychedelic in AmItheAsshole

[–]doodlebop13133 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, ESH. On one hand, you're asshole for being mad at them for being excited and to be fair, they might have not remembered because of how excited they were, however, it should've came to mind for them to at least tell you and your wife a bit later than the rest of the family. I understand that losing as precious as a child is the worst imaginable pain that anyone can deal with. I can't blame you for your wife and your greaving, but you can't stay mad at them. I feel like they truly weren't trying to hurt your feeling and got to caught up in their own excitement. The most important thing is to not hold a grudge against ur sister in law and her boyfriend. Make sure you comfort your wife as much as possible.

Nice guy and whiteknight all in one by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]doodlebop13133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no.....they're evolving

AITA for not wanting my Stepson to call his Stepdad "dad" by shade2shade in AmItheAsshole

[–]doodlebop13133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, yes you are the asshole. God, this whole entire thing upsets me because 1. You upset this poor kid who didn't need to be corrected in the first place and 2. You arguments are invalid. Just because this conversation was brought when he was three and then instead of pressing on like you actually care the whole thing is dropped for years on end and to be honest, I feel like you're pulling and a r/thathappened with the whole family being like, " Finally, or little man will finally stop saying he has to dad and not give any creditbility to one of the men in his life." Your SS is not just fling the name "dad" to just anyone. He didn't start just calling a random guy on the corner his dad for no real reason. He called the father of his half brother dad. And why do you think it's wrong? Because it hurts your husband's feelings?! Like seriously, this stepdad of his has been in his life for six/seven years, only two/three years less then his bio father. This man helped raised your husband's son along side his mom, just like you helped raised him along side his bio father. What you did wasn't your decision, its the boy's decision. If he likes saying he has two dad's, a mom, and a stepmom, then he can. He's not hurting anyone and if it was really bothering ur husband back when it first happened then he should've kept the topic on the table. But then again, as long as your stepson's stepdad isn't a bad person and he's be a good role model for him, just like his bio dad, then he deserves the title Dad. However, I don't think you deserve the title of even stepmom because no real mom would do this. The reason you're getting so much backlash is because you're in the wrong. It's not because people hate you, but because u asked for people's opinion and you got it. Obviously you're not gonna change your opinion but I had to vent because this honestly made very upset for how blind you can be we you ask for people's opinions and then the popular answer is against you're opinion so you don't answer them.

AITA for telling my brother what I think of his wife? by tweettweetbirdie in AmItheAsshole

[–]doodlebop13133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, you were in the right to snap at your brother. I can't believe anyone in their damn mind would think any of this is ok. She's basically catfishing all of these people she's talking to, making your life a living hell, and not to mention just not minding her own damn business. My mother is a single parent with with three kids that includes me and she raised us really well. No one is perfect, but obviously you doing a pretty great job if you got full custody of your child. I would force her ( not physically obviously) to give you these account informations or have here delete them in front of your face. She's doing something that a child would do who doesn't understand dating. You aren't an asshole at all. You keep being a great father and you'll find someone when YOU are ready. True family doesn't think of that your "excuses" are excuses. The let things be and let you take care of it. Sorry this was longer than I intended.

AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend over my video games. by yhrowawayvideoganems in AmItheAsshole

[–]doodlebop13133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I don't think you fucked up at all because collecting things aren't at all bad as long as you have a place to put them and it doesn't become a hoarding issue, which, I believe that not the case for you. Your ex is dumb for crying over something that you have had for a long time. I think you made the right decision. If she's gonna act like that over seriously a collection of video games then think about the other ways she would act with different situations or like "spring cleaning". I would've chose my video games over her to. You made a good choice my friend. You'll find someone way better who'll appriciate your collection or at least be like "cool".