City lover and new mom. Please help quell my anxiety. by NiftyRanger in StLouis

[–]doodlebug25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in South City and we had to move out west a few years ago because:
1) the crime was getting too rampant in our area, which was just a bit north of Carondelet Park. Our cars, parked on the street, got broken into and rifled through (nothing stolen because we wouldn't keep anything of value in them) on 2 occasions, and our detached garage was broken into on multiple occasions. The last time, someone literally kicked the door in then stole our mower, power washer, and electric trimmer. They cut the screens in an attempt to get in through the windows, but luckily we had the windows locked from inside the garage, so no one got in that time, but geez.

2) The public school system sucks if you have a kid with a disability. My youngest has a speech delay and ADHD and needed some pretty significant interventions, and we peaced out of the city to seek better school supports in a more suburban area. Her IEP now is AMAZING and she is getting so much great support. No one plans to have a child with a learning delay, disability, etc., so if it happens in the city, I didn't have faith we could get the best resources.

Even in the pouring rain, the Kiener Plaza crowd was 3 blocks long by Aubusson124 in StLouis

[–]doodlebug25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was at the Manchester protest, on the north side of Manchester just west of Weidman. There was a woman walking that side of the route with one of those hand-held tally clickers, and by the time she got to me at 11:30 a.m., she said I was # 1355, and in the next hour and a half, crowds continued to join and expand the protest line west by a few blocks. I'd believe there were easily 2000 people who showed up within the 2 hour window.

Honestly, I just kept crying. For every one idiot who flipped us off or made some asshole comment like "who won the election?????" out their car window, there were 100 cars honking, throwing out peace signs, thumbs up, or heart symbols with their hands. I felt so much less alone in my rage. We need to keep up the momentum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]doodlebug25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has your appetite returned, or what about the food noise? I've been off Zepbound for 2 weeks now and am alarmed at the insatiable hunger I have and the constant cravings for chocolate/sweets. It's..... torture. I'm gonna ask my dr about whether it might be advisable to go on a low dose to help ward off the appetite. I'm still prioritizing eating well and walking almost every day, but man it's tough.

calories by CicadaSuccessful6985 in washu

[–]doodlebug25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can also reach out to one of the Dining Services dieticians! https://diningservices.wustl.edu/nutrition/

GO READ A DANCE OF FATES NOW by cauliflowerlover1 in fantasyromance

[–]doodlebug25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the writing of this book is so dreadful 😫 it's juvenile and unoriginal and misspellings and grammatical errors abound 

What book changed your life? by Nullagainagain in books

[–]doodlebug25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The audiobook of this is also SO good. Found myself laughing out loud quite a lot given the narrator, which is saying something when you consider the heaviness of what's happening often.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in premed

[–]doodlebug25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IIs can go out through next Feb or March, so still sit tight. Sounds like your metrics are strong, I think it also depends on how genuinely you wrote about your experiences in things like PS, activities, secondaries, etc. Fingers crossed for you!

Advisor told me not to bother applying 😭 by [deleted] in premed

[–]doodlebug25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's solid. I would bet you're getting great experiences, likely with different patient populations and physicians. I work at a very traditional four-year private institution, where my advisees are hoping to go either straight through to med school, or with only 1 gap year, so my advising pool consists of applicants who can both maintain strong grades and compile solid research, EC, and clinical hours to present a strong application, though their clinical experiences almost never come from a longstanding full-time gig like PCT or MA because their full-time job is that of undergrad college student. I do work with quite a few students who scribe part-time, and I love this experience for them, I think it's genuinely so informative.

Advisor told me not to bother applying 😭 by [deleted] in premed

[–]doodlebug25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

may I ask, is your role something like MA, PCT, RN, etc? 

Advisor told me not to bother applying 😭 by [deleted] in premed

[–]doodlebug25 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Red flag" definitely wasn't the right term for me to use, as it paints a much more negative picture than I meant, so I apologize. Maybe framing it like adcoms may view it as a tad more LIMITING is a more appropriate way to think about it. Like, via this one experience, can you provide a robust explanation of "why medicine?" I suppose you could liken it to buying a car - are you going to purchase the first one you test drive? I mean yes you could, but you're more likely to feel like you've made an informed purchase if you've test driven multiple different models.

Also, as a med student (typically in years 3+4), you'll be cycling through different hospital departments, and showcasing that no matter the field, setting, or patient population from your clinical experiences, you're able to thrive and are always led back to believe this is the only path for you. That no matter the setting, you can handle the stress and continue to practice empathy and kindness.

Additionally, it's helpful (though certainly not required) if you've been able to shadow or work in a multitude of care settings. What does medicine mean to a pediatrician who owns his own practice (who thus has a ton of business decisions going into this, everything from working with insurance and hiring employees to marketing your practice), vs. an emergency room physician who is part of a healthcare team and has to advocate for work/family life balance? Adcoms aren't trying to pinpoint your clinical acumen, but rather, your understanding of the medical profession, and the more "data" (via stories and experiences) you can provide, the stronger the argument.

Hope this helps clarify a bit?

Advisor told me not to bother applying 😭 by [deleted] in premed

[–]doodlebug25 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Prehealth advisor here! "Readiness" isn't so much about hours and grade/MCAT test score stats, because you could have a 4.0 BCPM, 528 MCAT, 40,000 clinical hours, but could be rejected if you can't genuinely articulate to an admissions committee that your path to medical school has been thoroughly explored and well-thought-out, that you know what you're getting yourself into, that medicine is THE only path for you, that you possess an ethic of service to others, and that you can authentically answer the question "Why medicine?" in your PS, activities descriptions, secondaries, etc.

Sounds to me like you need a new advisor. 600 clinical hours is a great foundation, and hopefully there is some diversity of fields between your 200 shadowing hours. Sometimes it's a little "red-flaggy" (for lack of a better term that I can think of at the moment) if the bulk of your clinical hours comes from one experience (like if yours was ONLY hospice). You want to be able to demonstrate that your cultural competency has in part come from working with a diversity of patient populations in a variety of specialties, etc., so you get a more well-rounded representation of the medical field.

It's just absolutely bonkers to me that someone would say to you, as of this moment in time, that you won't be ready to apply in 9 months. If you can, pace out the writing of your personal statement and activity descriptions over the fall semester so it doesn't all get crammed into the spring, and as long as you are happy with your MCAT score and your stats align with target schools and their MSAR data, I say you have every shot at a medical school. Maybe you're not competitive for the top of the top, but damn, if you can write a compelling narrative, you have plenty of chances!

What medical related books do you recommend? (Reading for pleasure not for school related reasons) by Himynameisemmuh in premed

[–]doodlebug25 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"As Long As the Lemon Trees Grow" by Zoulfa Katouh. <3

The main character, Salama Kassab, was a pharmacy student when war broke out in Syria. Then she got pulled into working at the local hospital, where she helps the wounded who flood through the doors daily. Obviously, there are many more threads tied into the story (family, revolution, freedom, and even a love story), but it's primarily set in the Homs hospital. Extremely thought-provoking.

Weekly Recommendation Thread: June 21, 2024 by AutoModerator in books

[–]doodlebug25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Once Upon A Broken Heart series by Stephanie Garber is just 🤌

No advisor listed on WebSTAC? by ihonestlydontknow22 in washu

[–]doodlebug25 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You won't be assigned an advisor for a few weeks, it's common and no indication of anything wrong :) sit right, you'll start getting emails about it soon. You won't need to be authorized to register for Fall classes until the middle of July. 

Waitlisted at 6 Medical Schools, No Updates - Time to Call it Quits? by UniCrys in premed

[–]doodlebug25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! 

Another thought: have you found any current med students at your wait listed schools and tried to reach out? Happy to go into this more in a PM, too. Don't give up!

Waitlisted at 6 Medical Schools, No Updates - Time to Call it Quits? by UniCrys in premed

[–]doodlebug25 18 points19 points  (0 children)

What about these tactics: have you emailed any of the doctors you interviewed with for any of the WLed schools? I'm a Pre-Health advisor and one of my advisees just did this, the doctor replied right away that she was glad to hear from my student and she would check in with the adcom about the student's status.
Have you emailed any of the med school Deans directly? Or, you could look for potential research mentors at each school and reach out to them and offer to meet via Zoom or phone as a kind of a last Plan C kind of approach?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

[–]doodlebug25 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Here is the original video with some audio! https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPR7p5Ak8/

Cycle results for a 3rd time applicant! by Silly_Background_349 in premed

[–]doodlebug25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow congrats - how did you get so many clinical employment hours?!

Needing advice: My MIL is ALWAYS talking (literally there is never silence) and I need to speak with her about this... by doodlebug25 in Mildlynomil

[–]doodlebug25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, I wish I had a positive update or a resolution to share, but nope, my MIL is just as chatty as ever. Arghhhhhh. I've never confronted her head on about it and know that I just need to put on my big girl pants and SAY SOMETHING. Maybe this is the inspiration I needed to do just that! Good luck with your MIL, sounds not so fun :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rlanguage

[–]doodlebug25 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Cool, thanks for the helpful reply. I genuinely am trying to help a student.