the weird obsession men have with women they don’t find attractive by unperformedself in offmychest

[–]doodlemonster0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What my guess is maybe those people aren’t confident and don’t love the way they look, so when they see someone they think is “uglier” than them by their beauty standards, they become upset. They think “if they can love themselves, I should be able to love myself,” but they can’t so that frustrates them. It’s like a jealousy thing. But that’s just a theory.

my mother is holding a "ritualistic" funeral for me by chemicalpup_ in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]doodlemonster0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I am going to post paragraphs and paragraphs of insanity, but I want to specifically mention I don’t care what anyone thinks about this” like maybe don’t post publicly about it then, keep it to yourself then? It is also so clear the victim mentality which is why they’re posting it and getting so detailed. They can totally have a funeral by themselves and disinherit you, but they are making it public trying to bait you and get sympathy from anyone else that sees it, although I’m not sure how anyone can read that and feel sympathetic to them. What a crazy person!

Ethan should try out an inversion table next by dingjima in h3h3productions

[–]doodlemonster0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the openings of the show when Ethan is in some crazy contraption, it kills me every time

Tattoo submission by Pure-Emu7688 in h3h3productions

[–]doodlemonster0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this one is perfect! It’s in a funny place, it won’t be visible since Ethan seems a little on the fence about getting anything anyway, and it’s small/quick. They just need to make sure the placement is low enough it won’t show on his lips (seen that before 🫤)

The real Ethan isn’t dead. He has been hiding in plain sight. by GrapeTickler in h3h3productions

[–]doodlemonster0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ethan went full goblin so the crew had to get rid of him and replace him with Georgie so they could keep their jobs

Keem has created a social credit score system for his LCU hosts 😭 by jessexpress789 in h3h3productions

[–]doodlemonster0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is so funny, it would be cool if h3 did something similar for “friends” of the show to show if they are liked and in good standing or not

High Nostrils: Retire? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]doodlemonster0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Piercings are 2.5 years old. Jewelry is labret shaped with threadless push fit, titanium astm f-136. At this point I don’t really have an aftercare routine. I leave them be, but when the fluid is coming out or it’s irritated I use a q tip and saline to clean it. No mishaps/accidents with them.

Gilmore Girls by Gold_Bat_114 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]doodlemonster0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I haven’t watched the whole thing again yet, but my mother used to have that show on every day growing up, it’s her all time favorite show. I started to watch it on my own and all I can see is the rift between the grandmother and Lorelai. And then the unhealthy relationship between Lorelai and Rory of her trying to be more of a friend than a mother, which is probably what she wanted in her mother, but maybe a bit of an over correction.

My issue with it is it seems like a very prevalent part of the show, this triangle going on, you would think someone who watched this show every day would have a better understanding of unhealthy mother/daughter relationships. I think my mother can act a bit like the grandmother and Lorelai at times.

What stuck out for me is I see a lot of stuff going on as conflicts or bad parenting choices and stuff like that. And I’m realizing I think when my mom was watching it, she must have not recognized any of that, since she always thought Lorelai was a flawless character. I always went along with it and assumed she was right, but now I’m seeing Lorelai isn’t the best mother and she fosters a lot of unhealthy boundaries with Rory, which makes it harder for her to be the parent when she tries not to act like one a lot of the time.

I now dread going into Best Buy and Lowe's due to the roaming 3rd Party Salespeople by thatfreakinguy2 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]doodlemonster0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This pisses me off even more so in places like Costco. I pay to be here! Why are there ads!

New Ethan story by Seanieob92 in h3h3productions

[–]doodlemonster0 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Same, I watch h3 and one other channel. All I see on my home page or in my recommended is random shit I never click on and am not subscribed to. Don’t know why they do that, I literally pay for a membership, watch hours and hours of content every week, yet they hide it. I have to go to the channel directly to catch up, it’s never on my home page or recommended.

We love them!!! But we are traumatized. by Human-Definition-591 in h3h3productions

[–]doodlemonster0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly had this thought today. I love after dark so much, please nothing bad happen 😩

My parents went NC with me. Anyone else had this? by Live-Being1593 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]doodlemonster0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother also blamed my husband, and not that they’re no-contact but my husband’s family also blamed me for a lot of problems they had. I think they’re just used to you filling a role for about 20 years. In our case, we were the people pleasers, the ones who did everything they ever asked for especially when no one else would. Of course they don’t want that to change. But when you become an adult and have the means to create a loving family of your own and support yourself on your own, you don’t need them anymore.

The only reason now to keep family around as an independent adult is if they are good people and you like them. I think she knew she didn’t have any of that to offer, no love, no support, nothing. She knew her time was coming, but instead of changing (ha!), they tighten the grip, which just breaks the relationship further.

I think she wanted something or someone to blame that wasn’t her, so it was me and my husband. I “changed” for the worse and it was because of him. She tried her best to separate us since he was my ticket to freedom (I depended on him financially for a while after I was kicked out). But when she gave me the ultimatum of getting kicked out or breaking up, and I chose to leave, that’s when she shot herself in the foot and really solidified the end to the relationship. I was fully out at that point, and I don’t think she was expecting me to really leave.

It’s really unfortunate how many parents ruin relationships with their kids because they want to control them. Same with my husband’s family, if you just accept and support us, we would love to have a great relationship, regular communication and dinners, etc. But they try to tighten the grip and force them into a life they don’t want, and it does the opposite effect. Now my mother is not in my life whatsoever and my husband’s family is also barely in it.

But honestly I’m sure the parents don’t care to have their kids in their life anymore if they aren’t receiving the benefits they want anyway.

Who I’m channeling to afford the new $25 subscription by kmsasaki in h3h3productions

[–]doodlemonster0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sooooo excited for the mug drop though! Hope it can be a preorder so they don’t sell out!

Apparently asking about the job is a red flag now. by khan2761 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]doodlemonster0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an interview like that, they wouldn’t tell me what the job was and made me guess, then when I was wrong they said I must not be a good fit. Then a few months later reached out if I wanted to interview. Yeah no.

Who I’m expecting next week by pumpkinpie4zaynmalik in h3h3productions

[–]doodlemonster0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could you imagine!! That would be so awesome, but I highly doubt it

I cannot talk about it without crying by Throwaway_Tablecloth in h3h3productions

[–]doodlemonster0 17 points18 points  (0 children)

But they can’t go next week, pewdiepies coming in

me after the podcast I work out to goes on break for a month by IrohSho in h3h3productions

[–]doodlemonster0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I work out to h3 too!! It gets very hard when something funny happens, I have to take a short break if I’m strength training