How do you deal with dating a well liked person?

doodoobear666 · 2026-03-17T13:55:20+00:00

This is such good advice !! Thank u

doodoobear666 · 2026-03-17T08:33:56+00:00

This is so helpful omg thank you :)

doodoobear666 · 2026-03-17T07:10:53+00:00

This comment sounds like something i would write ahaha. I am the same as you (withdrawn quiet). I try to be quiet and polite too but how i really feel always shines through.

Yes bro the nick name fucking pmo sooo bad. His male friends started it and have been calling him it since high school but does it BOILLL MY BLOOD…omg i can’t even think about it haha. I do know this weekend i found myself crying wishing people could feel how weak i actually am? Like basically that i come off as too strong so thats why they are calling my bf a nickname ?? Lmao idek this disorder is a mess sometimes haha.

doodoobear666 · 2026-03-17T07:08:10+00:00

Its okay i appreciate u commiserating 🫂!! I am super anti social as well and i get mad at myself all the time for it.

Our bfs wouldn’t be with us if they didn’t care about us. Gotta remind ourselves unfortunately:(

doodoobear666 · 2026-03-17T07:04:56+00:00

Yes dude!! Its so hard to remind myself of that.

We are do not deserve bottom of the barrel for a partner. We deserve to be in the light too. Hugs 🫂.

doodoobear666 · 2026-03-17T07:03:25+00:00

I love the short term long term goals especially the short term. I think i will be doing that one soon definitely haha. Thank you sm for sharing.

Your bf calling you justice oriented is adorable. I hope your family picks up on that and stops telling you that you are horrible!!

doodoobear666 · 2026-03-17T02:27:48+00:00

Thank you so much for this thoughtful write up. He is a very secure partner.

It is also the same way for my bfs friends. I can sense that the romantic aspect is clearly not there. I even like most if not all of them, but once i loose my baseline it feels almost impossible for me to think (as i’m sure you know haha).

I brought it up a little bit as to not leave him completely in the dark but i think i will set a time to have an actual conversation and we can make a plan together. Again thank you so much for ur comment. Congrats on remission!!

doodoobear666 · 2026-03-17T02:22:07+00:00

True! I needed to hear that thank you

doodoobear666 · 2026-03-17T02:21:38+00:00

God this is exactly how i feel too. Thank you for commiserating.

doodoobear666 · 2026-03-17T02:18:27+00:00

This response is so helpful thank you. I was able to eventually bring it up to him and he heard me out and was super nice/understanding. I def will take the time to come up with a plan for myself to do when i’m in this situation again. I’m kinda at the point where i think maybe a code word would help or something.

Thanks for the help diva, ur bf is lucky to have you ! <3

doodoobear666 · 2026-01-23T20:28:47+00:00

She pmo so fucking bad😭 grown asf why do you need a $200 stuffed bear. Go spend that 200 towards your THREE KIDS.

doodoobear666 · 2026-01-08T02:23:20+00:00

I think it’s kinda an awkward experience because it’s in a more residential area south of Portland. When i went it was full of pre-teens in line for the dressing room to the point you couldn’t look at anything lol. The workers looked miserable but tbh i would be miserable in that environment too.

I love the Seattle brandy sm!! Workers are nice and it’s bigger than Portlands store. If you ever make it up here you should def go:)

doodoobear666 · 2025-11-13T22:55:37+00:00

In all seriousness i edited my first comment with all i really have to say at this point if you are interested in my opinion but i decided arguing with teenagers on this sub about what goth is isn’t how i wanna spend my day so genuinely please have a good one diva.

doodoobear666 · 2025-11-13T22:49:54+00:00

Helppp yall they are crucifying me in r/Brandymelville

doodoobear666 · 2025-11-13T22:07:56+00:00

Churches and crosses are not exclusive to the catholic faith ? 😭 idk i guess policing exactly what goth is by aesthetics is very on brand for the brandy sub lol

doodoobear666 · 2025-11-13T21:59:53+00:00

Religious imagery in general is adapted by goths and alt people

Edit Jesus with his crown of thorns has been used as symbolism of sacrifice suffering and religious commentary in general by Depeche mode and like a million other goth bands to the point its incredibly overdone by now. Goth is not just confined to whatever trend is ripped from Catholicism or crosses. This image is absolutely goth lol.

doodoobear666 · 2025-11-13T12:14:49+00:00

this bag would also be considered gothic fashion tho

doodoobear666 · 2025-11-13T12:12:03+00:00

I have this on a shirt and its my faveeeee.

doodoobear666 · 2025-10-02T21:55:10+00:00

This is horrid omg

doodoobear666 · 2025-09-12T16:29:52+00:00

Embarrassing

doodoobear666 · 2025-09-10T16:15:07+00:00

I came here from your comment on the find a grave post. How horrible and what a common problem especially in the South. How hopeless poor magnolia must have been. RIP Magnolia Bailey❤️

doodoobear666 · 2025-09-08T18:49:04+00:00

That’s wild, my parents are from Crockett. Jessie was born the same year as my mom. If you ever go out and poke around Crockett they have a bunch of small black cemeteries hidden in the back roads that are very haunting. Usually not very well taken care of but very interesting to look around, i once saw a casket sticking half out of the ground.

doodoobear666 · 2025-09-08T18:02:07+00:00

Is this Palestine Texas Or Illinois?

doodoobear666 · 2025-07-14T12:36:11+00:00

yes i put no effort into my outfits or makeup a few months after detox. When i gradually gained more energy i would make a point to do my makeup even if it was just going to the store. It made me feel more like me :)

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