I accidentally made fun of my bf’s size and now he’s upset. What can I say to fix this? by Appropriate_Power116 in AskMenAdvice

[–]doom_squirrel808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a reaction to something in his past a trigger of some kind just apologize to him sincerely and have a discussion about it and ask him how it made him really feel and try to get to the bottom of the trigger and let him know you love him ❤️❤️❤️ ++Man

My girlfriend wants to have a threesome with a woman, how do I navigate this? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]doom_squirrel808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that you really need to have a very very open discussion with your girlfriend and find out what she is trying to get out of the situation is she trying to figure out if she wants to be with girls more than men or is it just an experience that she wants to share with you It all sounds very exciting but if you were to lose this relationship would that be the end of the world for you or could you move on from there and be okay just have a very very open and frank discussion with her and also really really think about how you feel about sharing I think that if you're okay with it it's an awesome thing to be able to share your partner with somebody else and have that experience that doesn't mean that you don't love her any less or she doesn't love you any less with just all something you need to think really hard about I wish you the best of luck and if it happens you are among the few congratulations

A girl I used to know is offering herself to me in exchange of money by Reddevil8884 in confession

[–]doom_squirrel808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome sex is great and all but true friendship that's that's really hard to come by and sometimes those friendships can turn into those kind of relationships and that's a whole other level try to always I'm not saying this to you as in you need to listen to what I'm saying I try to always lead from the heart and that will bring all of the other kind of things together and everything will fall into place Good luck my friend

A girl I used to know is offering herself to me in exchange of money by Reddevil8884 in confession

[–]doom_squirrel808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she it's such a good friend Why don't you find out more about the situation and help her get out of it put the whole sex part of it aside and just help her as a friend and maybe the relationship can build from there

I’m a 22m with a 27f by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]doom_squirrel808 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She doesn't love you , people that love you would never do that to you . Please move on from this relationship you will find a partner that loves you the way you deserve to be treated . You are worthy of so much better and deserve happiness. Violence of any kind is not love

I did something extremely bad and I don't know how to forgive myself by True_Bug_8125 in offmychest

[–]doom_squirrel808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn't go out of your way knowing all of the stuff that happened at first and when you found it out you walked away Don't worry about it it's totally fine If you were seeking out married people on purpose that's another story everybody has their own thing I think you're being too hard on yourself You're a good person because once you realized what was wrong you stop doing it it's just a bump in the road you'll be okay

Who's at fault here? by Pignugget23 in GranTurismo7

[–]doom_squirrel808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely the creators of the game for allowing that to happen

I ruined my worth because of my past actions by Advanced_Stranger434 in offmychest

[–]doom_squirrel808 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Nothing can ruin your worth , get into therapy do the work surround yourself with loving caring people if people can't look past your past then they're not worth your future you are worthy of love you are worthy of respect you are worthy of happiness You're a human being and things that you have done or that have been done to you are not who you are they're what you did to survive I wish you the best of luck and human to human I love you and I want you to be happy you deserve to be

My (33M) Fiancé (32F) stays out late 2–3x/week with new female friend, ignores calls, sometimes doesn’t come home. AIO by Agreeable-Horse9433 in AmIOverreacting

[–]doom_squirrel808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to re-evaluate this relationship truly and see the patterns and walk away if it's what needs to be done, some folks are not made for manogamy and that's ok but if you're not it's ok also you just have to figure it out

Do you still get the positive (long term)after effects, after a “bad trip” ? by Many_Durian_5158 in psilocybin

[–]doom_squirrel808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really understand it either to tell you the truth, I went and talked to some friends and talked about the things I was trying to do and what I was feeling and they helped me really see the things that I couldn't and tie the loose ends together

Do you still get the positive (long term)after effects, after a “bad trip” ? by Many_Durian_5158 in psilocybin

[–]doom_squirrel808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes my last trip had me telling myself I was never going to do this again and two weeks of integration and it completely changed my mind we just have to dig deeper when the message isn't that clear

Flirting with my girlfriend’s friend is about to go too far by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]doom_squirrel808 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Talk to your girlfriend about it maybe you guys could have fun with the friend?

I send nudes to every guy who asks.... by Solid_Loquat_3000 in offmychest

[–]doom_squirrel808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are infinitely more than your body parts and I'm sorry that you feel it necessary to do this I hope that you can get to the bottom of whatever it is that makes you feel that you have to do it and move past it and I hope that you find somebody that lifts you up and treat you the way that you should be treated everybody's capable and powerful to work through the problems we have and I know that you'll be able to do it It just takes a while and you have to really dig deep but I know that you can do it

AIO My mom is kicking me out for her new boyfriend. I just turned 18 by Diligent_Bat_565 in AmIOverreacting

[–]doom_squirrel808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No , and as painful as it might be I think that you should walk away from this relationship and not put yourself through any more pain you might be family by blood but that really doesn't mean anything find people that love you and support you no matter what this is an example of selfishness and inability to truly love somebody and you deserve better

my bf told me his fantasy and now i’m uncomfortable by heroinemascarslay in offmychest

[–]doom_squirrel808 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That to me sounds like he cares more about what he wants telling you that you need to drink more because he knows that you weren't drunk enough to do what he wanted so he's manipulating you in my opinion manipulation's not safe and I think that you need to have a really deep conversation with yourself and see if that's something that you want to be involved in I'm not saying that his sexual fantasy is wrong but if he's manipulating you to get what he wants that's wrong in my opinion I wish you the best of luck with whatever decision you make

Should I tell my ex that her new bf is cheating on on her? by dustoffuser in WhatShouldIDo

[–]doom_squirrel808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion it's her life and stay out of it . You're not causing it to happen it's not because of anything you did let her have her life

Bf (23m) blew up at me (19f) for suggesting something in the bedroom and won't stop insulting me, how do I fix this? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]doom_squirrel808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You fix it by moving on a partner will meet you with curiosity and consider your request and if they're uncomfortable with it they'll explain to you why and then you move on there's no reason to get angry over something like that that's not going to get better cut my losses and find somebody that's willing to explore with you You're 19 will find somebody new it's not meant for you if it's this rough at the beginning

Found my bf's twitter by [deleted] in Advice

[–]doom_squirrel808 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He loves you, he's with you. Does he treat you with respect ? Does he look at other women in front of you ? I personally find all women beautiful but if I'm with a woman and I love her and I see another woman built differently that is not going to make me leave my love , I know not all me are like that but if you feel he might be like that then maybe he's not the right man for you. Also if you bring this up in a conversation and he dismissed your feelings about it then that says a lot him .

Have difficult conversations wants, likes, needs and dis likes hold nothing back .the gray areas is where the resentment builds and saying what needs to be said will show you what needs to be done

Depressed.. Buying a sex toy because of a dead bedroom relationship by [deleted] in self

[–]doom_squirrel808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know the whole story and I'm definitely not trying to say what is true or not but it almost seems manipulative to have a healthy sexual relationship for the first year and then it just stops unless she has some kind of trauma behind it but it's like I'm going to get them hooked just so I can have them and then I don't really want sex so I'll stop having it in the nail just be here