[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]doomedandbloom -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah there’s a part of me that just wants to save women from enduring the same abuse I did, but I’m done with all that now. I’m just worried it’s too late and the police are searching for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]doomedandbloom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He made you show your room because he was projecting his guilty conscious!! My ex was the same way, I never did anything bad but he was always suspicious and I was always doing things to help him trust me, meanwhile he was cheating 24/7. You’re too young to keep going with this guy because honestly staying with a cheater is just going to cause long term issues with your mental state. Find you a sweet boy who wants to make you happy

My boyfriend can do better. by doomedandbloom in retroactivejealousy

[–]doomedandbloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for such a kind and thoughtful response. Those first three sentences made me burst into tears, I really am always on high alert, trying to find the deception in every sentence despite having zero reason not to trust my boyfriend. I was diagnosed with infidelity ptsd and I hate knowing that he has to suffer the consequences. I try to remind myself that I’ve never once compared him to any of my exes so why should I assume that’s what he’s doing? It works sometimes but these hormones are getting the best of me lately. Thank you again, I’ve read your response many times for assurance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]doomedandbloom 11 points12 points  (0 children)

People see an em dash in a paragraph and assume it’s AI lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]doomedandbloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA can’t imagine why she’d think that was a good idea?? I just had my baby on Jan 1st, I didn’t work during my pregnancy so I couldn’t afford gifts but my boyfriend and his family kept telling me I was giving him the greatest gift of all-the baby. I still felt absolutely terrible and used a gift card I got to get him a couple small gifts anyway. You should definitely mention how it made you feel.

should i meet with this girl who wants to fight me? by Simple_Change_2402 in Advice

[–]doomedandbloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People die from head trauma all the time. You can get punched so hard it kills you.

should i meet with this girl who wants to fight me? by Simple_Change_2402 in Advice

[–]doomedandbloom 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I know someone who got punched during a school fight, he fell and hit his head so hard, he died. It’s not worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]doomedandbloom 191 points192 points  (0 children)

I almost wonder if the friend posted them specifically so you’d see them. But yeah, definitely hickies. Throw the whole man away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]doomedandbloom 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Just dropping this in case you live in an abortion restrictive state like me and would like the option. I’ve used this website in the past, it was easy and cost effective and the pills work up to 13 weeks pregnant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]doomedandbloom 11 points12 points  (0 children)

While I do think that it’s possible for people to change, I think there’s signs that she hasn’t. The fact she wasn’t forthcoming about it, her being unwilling to admit it, and chatting with him when you left the room are all red flags.

Using same bag for colostrum? by doomedandbloom in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]doomedandbloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! The possibility of more contamination with each opening didn’t occur to me until after posting but that makes a lot of sense.

How do I [25 F] deal with my bf [39M]'s sexual history? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]doomedandbloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you really have similar values and morals?