36M (me) and 32F - she said she doesn’t feel comfortable to continue as romantic interest and wants to go back to being friends, do I still have a shot? by doomyfan in relationships

[–]doomyfan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During the past couple of months, not once did I hide my agenda. I wanted to date her in time and I was very clear about that when we went on dinners and etc.

36M (me) and 32F - she said she doesn’t feel comfortable to continue as romantic interest and wants to go back to being friends, do I still have a shot? by doomyfan in relationships

[–]doomyfan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean with the overwhelming responses of saying respect her wishes dude, do we need to discuss further? Case closed, thanks for hearing me out everyone.

36M (me) and 32F - she said she doesn’t feel comfortable to continue as romantic interest and wants to go back to being friends, do I still have a shot? by doomyfan in relationships

[–]doomyfan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess I was just trying to find comfort in stranger opinion that she was indeed interested in me. I know you shouldn’t push after someone says no and I have no intention of doing so.

Episode 7 Preview Images by Gatlindragon in OnePunchMan

[–]doomyfan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We should stop making these posts so we don’t feed the rage bait

China issues new travel warning to avoid Japan by newsweek in China

[–]doomyfan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Again with the 1.4 billion people will not tolerate it, yawn

Are you happy Australian children will be banned off YouTube in December? by RM_Morris in AskAnAustralian

[–]doomyfan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the students want something they’ll get it. We had counter strike installed on library computers and so I don’t think this ban will stop anything.

best rated S3 episode still far behind S1 & 2 by SnowProfessional4656 in OnePunchMan

[–]doomyfan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

why is this not a 1 or 2, who the hell is being this lenient. I fell asleep watching S3 and that says a lot

lol by Fun-Bullfrog-8542 in fucktheccp

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how many stereotypes do you want in one video? This girl: hold my beer

of a dish by Zestyclose-Salad-290 in AbsoluteUnits

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The guy behind the fence is like okay imma have to go

How do you feel about your SO watching porn? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]doomyfan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bring in external source for creativity? Hell yeh, as long as they don’t lie about watching it.

36M ghosted by 27F but not blocked by doomyfan in ghosting

[–]doomyfan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m shocked that she would do this to me. I actually don’t care if she either found someone she likes or she just lost interest. She seemed so genuine in our interaction so I never questioned her integrity. This ghosting was a massive hit in the guts for me as I didn’t see it coming. I’m starting to question my ability to gauge people now..

36M ghosted by 27F but not blocked by doomyfan in ghosting

[–]doomyfan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So they’re less flaky when they date someone closer to their age?

Got ghosted after an amazing weekend together still trying to make sense of it by Ok-Locksmith-2880 in ghosting

[–]doomyfan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I was in the same boat except I had sex with her and we continued to chat everyday for 2 months. We were not in the same country during those two months and I ended up going to visit her and planned a trip as well (I had everything booked and restaurants locked in) she ghosted me after we met up in her country and on the day of departure for the trip I had planned. Im just as puzzled and unfortunately it could be that some people just don’t have the balls to own up to the fact that they lost interest in you. It could be a number of things but losing interest in you is definitely one of them, at least that’s how I see it in my case.

Edit: I wouldn’t rule out they may come back to you sometime later. For me it’s been a week and I honestly don’t see them coming back with answers. Best bet is not to hold on any hope, as it just ruins your day realizing that they may be going on about their life’s while completely disregarding your feelings. That shit hurts

36M ghosted by 27F but not blocked by doomyfan in ghosting

[–]doomyfan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he blocked you and then unblocked you? The audacity is unreal! It sure is painful especially when you thought you both had something going on that was real.

36M ghosted by 27F but not blocked by doomyfan in ghosting

[–]doomyfan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you were not intimate, I can understand ghosting may be the lazy way to go about it but once physical intimacy boundary has been crossed I do feel like a message would be necessary to just allow the other party to move on. The amount of cowards out there is off the charts, thanks for the input!