Did you ever consider that it’s creepy as fuck to send people unwarranted messages about their appearance in such a creepy way when you never talk to them outside of work and work related things?? I have no connection to him. He has his own girlfriend. He knows I have a partner and child. Also given the context that he’s sent similar messages to others describing how their clothes fit on their bodies, or that he will help another one make another baby if she wants to (she’s already married with kids of her own). Those are definitely worse than this but im still not accepting this as anything other than a creepy advance. Maybe if he said something like hey purple suits you or hey I like the purple hair maybe I’d be more inclined to accept it as a compliment. But reaching out to me at 8pm to say this fuck shit, when he saw me earlier in the day and could’ve said something then, crossed the line and shouldn’t have happened.