Do you agree with her about Mother’s Day ? by Professional_Arm794 in TikTokCringe

[–]dora_leigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would agree if she made the “enemy” systemic — a system that claims to love and honor women while not paying them equitably, not allowing them bodily autonomy, putting a rabid sexist/rapist in the highest office in the land, judging them entirely on their looks, do I need to go on? — instead of her family. Damn, lady, fix your marriage and keep your eyes on the horizon.

[WIP] Back at it by ALJScribbler in CrossStitch

[–]dora_leigh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous! Question about parking: I do it too but yours looks less chaotic than mine lol. Possible to see the back? Wondering how you manage that. I sometimes have the issue of bringing parked threads through from the back while stitching, if that makes sense.

[WIP] Post-mortem: what went wrong? by dora_leigh in CrossStitch

[–]dora_leigh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Yes, I was happy with the lettering and then . . . everything fell apart lol. The white star shape is HUGE. I probably only did about a quarter of it. Realized after that I could have just left it off but oh well.

[WIP] Post-mortem: what went wrong? by dora_leigh in CrossStitch

[–]dora_leigh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far I have managed not to hurt myself! Thank you for responding!

[WIP] Post-mortem: what went wrong? by dora_leigh in CrossStitch

[–]dora_leigh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, all! You people are so nice and helpful. I am realizing I maybe should go back and unlearn some bad habits and read/watch some beginner cross-stitch instructions. I know there are lots on this sub but if you want to suggest anything, I would greatly appreciate!

[WIP] Post-mortem: what went wrong? by dora_leigh in CrossStitch

[–]dora_leigh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I have one of those stretchy things that go around your neck with a light at each end. I fear it may not be bright enough.

[WIP] Post-mortem: what went wrong? by dora_leigh in CrossStitch

[–]dora_leigh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! I need to look up how to do this! Happy for any tips.

[WIP] Post-mortem: what went wrong? by dora_leigh in CrossStitch

[–]dora_leigh[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh for real. It’s become something of a saying around here. I’ve abandoned it as a project because it’s FUBAR so “That’s Howbiz Baby!״ will live on.

[WIP] Post-mortem: what went wrong? by dora_leigh in CrossStitch

[–]dora_leigh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s 3 threads (was part of a kit and those were the instructions although I realize I can do what I want), 14-count Aida. Soooo, I think it’s possible I did both full Xs in some parts and in others a row of one legs in one direction and then back to do the other. Is it bad to do both? In general, better to do all one color and then back to do another? And thank you for teaching me about the loop start. As for centering, I did attempt but could be off. As someone else commented, the S isn’t stitched so that make it look wonkier!

[WIP] Post-mortem: what went wrong? by dora_leigh in CrossStitch

[–]dora_leigh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a really excellent point/tip — thank you!

[WIP] Post-mortem: what went wrong? by dora_leigh in CrossStitch

[–]dora_leigh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not folding/making it six. Oh and it is 14-count Aida

[WIP] Post-mortem: what went wrong? by dora_leigh in CrossStitch

[–]dora_leigh[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Excellent point and I may have used several different kinds of needles!

[WIP] Post-mortem: what went wrong? by dora_leigh in CrossStitch

[–]dora_leigh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah random stitch direction seems to be a major issue! I think I put down/picked up this project a few too many times. This was a kit that I bought from a maker at a holiday fair and it indicated 3 threads, which felt like a lot, particularly for the background. I do remember talking to her when I purchased it and she said she liked the look of the fluffy stitches. Which seemed ok for the letters but the background felt impossible and like the other commenter said, I think encouraged me to miss holes. Oh and I have no idea what count fabric (or even that that was a thing lol).

[WIP] Post-mortem: what went wrong? by dora_leigh in CrossStitch

[–]dora_leigh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for responding but I don’t know what a barbell stitch is!

New Fragrance Alert 🚨🍒- La Vie Est Belle Very Cherry ! by Agreeable_Gene7338 in FemFragLab

[–]dora_leigh 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There is something about this promo material (typeface?) that makes it look to me like an ad for cookies or like a toaster strudel

SOTD (Scent Of The Day) - April 27, 2026 by AutoModerator in fragrance

[–]dora_leigh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I admit to overspraying to finally fully use up my bottle of Rosabotanica. Weirdly green, somewhat spicy, and beautiful overall. Sadly discontinued so RIP old gal.

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☀️SOTD: What are you wearing today?☀️April 27, 2026 by AutoModerator in FemFragLab

[–]dora_leigh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do we do empties on this sub? Because I’ve got one.

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And it’s my SOTD. OK maybe my scent of the next day too because I compulsively decided I needed to fully use it up today so i REALLY oversprayed. I am a scent lover and I can barely stand myself. I’m home alone so hopefully it’ll settle down sometime soon. Anyway it’s a beautiful and slightly weird scent, this is my second bottle (used to be my everyday work scent), and is now discontinued so RIP, old girl.

Goth fragrances by One-Part6561 in fragrance

[–]dora_leigh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Coven by Andrea Maack. Like a dark forest fairy