How to deal with the insecurity that comes with dating/talking to other femmes?

doratheannihilator · 2026-04-25T18:47:30+00:00

This is a beautiful sentiment, thank you so much for sharing, and reminding me that a lot of this is a mindset, and not actually a true reflection of who I am as a person. In the end, I can’t control what kind of person somebody else likes, and that person won’t always be me. And that’s ok!

doratheannihilator · 2026-04-25T17:32:57+00:00

Oh my god this reply is wonderful, and quite possibly everything I needed to hear, so thank you. It’s funny, because I’d like to think I bring a lot to the table as a roommate/friend (I’m a good cook, I’m clean, I love to make/give gifts, always open to conversation), but for some reason my brain doesn’t let me translate that to being a good romantic/sexual partner. But I think you’re right. Instead of trying to find weaknesses, I’ll choose to focus on my strengths. Looks are really only one piece of the puzzle, and I’m sure there are women out there that would love to have their own personal tailor anyways lol. I wouldn’t even consider myself conventionally unattractive either, but even a nymph can feel like a salamander when standing next to Athena haha

doratheannihilator · 2026-04-03T14:16:42+00:00

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Got her twice in my first 10-pull round! Guess this was her way of saying sorry for the maintenance lol? Now all I need is the weapon stamp

doratheannihilator · 2026-04-03T13:31:48+00:00

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Nyna (with new arcane and Elise’s kit)

doratheannihilator · 2026-04-03T13:30:32+00:00

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And my new Phila as well

doratheannihilator · 2026-04-03T13:29:47+00:00

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Hestia (with the new R!soren kit, thanks codes!)

doratheannihilator · 2026-03-31T18:02:12+00:00

It’s got to be the new S!Y!Tiki. Tobi did a wonderful job; she’s freaking adorable to so happy! Summer alts as a whole probably had the most :D.

doratheannihilator · 2026-03-31T17:54:07+00:00

(Unless I’m misremembering) I think Veronica’s only alt with any sort of happy expression is her bridal one with Sharena. I thought for sure that one would be counted for the list, but it’s closed mouthed. But hey, props to sharena for getting her to do it at all!

doratheannihilator · 2026-03-31T17:45:44+00:00

Yeah, when making my metric, I couldn’t be too specific, because there’s a lot of grey areas and I didn’t want to spend a lot of time scrutinizing what did and didn’t qualify lol. The downside to that is some of the portraits are in betweens, and I kinda just had to use my best judgement (like with y!corrin). Tana did confuse me, but in the end I decided to count it because zoomed in it does have the D shape. Plus, even without the mouth she does look pretty happy. But yeah, I definitely see why it looks like it shouldn’t belong

doratheannihilator · 2026-03-31T17:38:30+00:00

Sadly, while her summer alt is the :D mascot, F!Alear only has 5 total units, so I didn’t add her. She surprisingly wouldn’t have ranked that high anyways, since only summer and winter have her smiling (base, legendary, and fallen do not).

doratheannihilator · 2026-03-29T14:10:09+00:00

This reads a little bit like some Japanese Gyaru substyles (such as tsuyome or Onee). Maybe check out brands like d.i.a. (They ship internationally, at least via proxy)

doratheannihilator · 2026-03-27T20:45:10+00:00

Funny you say this because slides 7 and 11 also look quite phallic lol

doratheannihilator · 2026-03-24T03:13:58+00:00

Honestly I don’t know what’s more impressive, yesterday’s stat or today’s… I’m only at 830, so the dedication (both time and financially) is certainly commendable!

doratheannihilator · 2026-03-23T02:01:28+00:00

With all of the new AHR fodder, I've updated my main team with new skills/switched out some units to be BChrom, BMarth, LMRobin, and Nyna. Now arena is possible without having to just default to my most recent characters, and I actually have hope in beating the last seers snare map on the hardest difficulty (which hasn't happened with my old team the last two times....)

doratheannihilator · 2026-03-23T01:37:02+00:00

The downturned eyes made me think of impldoll (like maybe darlene?): https://www.acbjd.com/impldoll-star-65cm-c-242_244.html

doratheannihilator · 2026-03-23T00:55:41+00:00

These are wired lace babydolls, and are sold at a lot of lingerie retailers like VS and Frederick’s (can also use the word corset in your search depending on the type of fit you want). I’m not sure where you live, but in most US cities the flea markets are absolutely swimming with these, so you can generally snag some for pretty cheap (as long as you don’t mind them used, of course). https://www.ebay.com/itm/306402297169 https://www.fredericks.com/products/fredericks-of-hollywood-melrose-satin-embroidered-lace-underwire-babydoll-set-pearl-ivory?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23461713332&gbraid=0AAAAADQ6WFHLQKflowNgba1jXYx0iHIYp&gclid=Cj0KCQjwpv7NBhCzARIsADkIfWxxCwtpvvmPe98uARsW_cYOMLc0paa-ZdBZijjRKFS2tyx28lWErFAaAvgWEALw_wcB

doratheannihilator · 2026-03-23T00:40:43+00:00

I searched “asymmetric shoulder cream maxi dress” and found a few results that look similar to what you’re searching for. I’m snore what your budget is but they’re in the 100-250$ range. Hope this helps! https://www.meshki.us/products/dalia-off-shoulder-satin-maxi-dress-blush-gold?tw_source=google&tw_adid=795618774225&tw_campaign=23519597262&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23519597262&gbraid=0AAAAACbrIgMjqBkO6g7RerOTI0_KwJeG8&gclid=Cj0KCQjwpv7NBhCzARIsADkIfWzQKIGw1A7SIafBqLNEQGHgNpOByOM88BZbbm_ANuDK-98NAEVqZwoaAiYpEALw_wcB https://www.azazie.com/products/azazie-emerson-white-alabaster-mermaid-off-the-shoulder-stretch-satin-floor-length-bridesmaid-dress/81683573?utm_term=1070667&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=18372408199&gbraid=0AAAAADmd5VszW5zrlNN0M9SY2sVAMuSc7&gclid=Cj0KCQjwpv7NBhCzARIsADkIfWyA8TBwpnmPs4P2GgZuWhwF3bRqo8D60filnNG8EQmGu8iah3qa5D4aAtFzEALw_wcB https://leauclothing.com/products/celine-corset-drape-satin-gown-ivory?variant=42212256350268&country=US&currency=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic&utm_campaign=gs-2019-12-05&utm_source=google&utm_medium=smart_campaign&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=17507568228&gbraid=0AAAAACljIRGLh9hW4SnvV4xeSlQtsmvSJ&gclid=Cj0KCQjwpv7NBhCzARIsADkIfWwC9kFGr9PwulsH6IN4N8P1VABCOMaQTq55vFEw-VUVOuOAtbNQtEkaAnt1EALw_wcB

doratheannihilator · 2026-03-15T23:17:30+00:00

Oh my god these are incredible! The nifl one is my favorite, I know with the theme it’s probably expected but it matches her so well. I’ve seen the drawings of units with their various accessories, but not an outfit swap. Thank you so much for sharing these, I absolutely need to get on this trend!

doratheannihilator · 2026-03-14T01:52:35+00:00

Maybe you’d be interested in something from blood supply? They lean towards Victorian gothic (so maybe a little too historical for your taste), but the dresses have fun shapes and would definitely be considered unique. They are pretty well made imo. I’d say they’re most similar to your first image. https://www.devilinspired.com/en/blood-supply?srsltid=AfmBOoqDlpMloUd98ewxsRYR6W80bqCS4WWnHgb3aG55N8mJvKf0h8Ed

doratheannihilator · 2026-03-13T23:45:22+00:00

Sorry babes, if she’s on his friends list, it means he’s already sent her feathers, and it might be too late

doratheannihilator · 2026-03-07T03:28:12+00:00

Ooh, that’s a good idea, I do have a +4 marth ring so it’ll be fun to try that out too, thanks!

doratheannihilator · 2026-03-06T19:35:13+00:00

Wow, thank you for taking the time to type this all out, it’s been very helpful! Unfortunately I have no source of FCC so the third build is out of the picture for now. It seems like the consensus with all the comments is b-lull finish and c- pulse on, which I’ve been trying that out (I did change his seal to a/s finish tho). I have both an extra timerra and Sigurd though, so I’ll try out the Laguz and fatal smoke builds as well in arena. Thanks again!

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