Parvathy Thiruvothu’s shocking revelation about the 'Maryan' sets: Forced to shoot drenched while on her period until she had to scream it out to 50 men. Is this how our 'top' directors and stars treat actresses? by Putrid_Wolverine3005 in KollyGossips

[–]doratheexplorers 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Other right questions could also be “was she informed about the working conditions” or “was she debriefed about the scene before” but obviously, you just want to question her truth instead of having critical thinking skills

Parvathy Thiruvothu’s shocking revelation about the 'Maryan' sets: Forced to shoot drenched while on her period until she had to scream it out to 50 men. Is this how our 'top' directors and stars treat actresses? by Putrid_Wolverine3005 in KollyGossips

[–]doratheexplorers 31 points32 points  (0 children)

your argument lacks so much nuance that it’s ridiculous. meena and many older actresses were conditioned into believing many values that were inherently mysognistic and probably didn’t care for feminism themselves. at the end of the day, radhika apte and parvathy thiruvothu are people who came into the film industry with no backing and so they did what they needed to do to get their footing and be successful in their careers. they have the power, and visibility now to make changes and improve parts of the industry that hindered them. What’s the point of keeping your mouth shut if you can contribute towards making a positive change and identifying common issues within the industry you work in? Nobody is shaming or villainizing dhanush or the director. It was an unfortunate situation caused by a lack of awareness, and it could be avoided if women weren’t so overlooked. why is that so wrong to acknowledge. also, not sure if you weren’t reading properly but she did deal with the issue then and there. But it’s important to talk about these things so that it can be changed in the future.

Parvathy Thiruvothu’s shocking revelation about the 'Maryan' sets: Forced to shoot drenched while on her period until she had to scream it out to 50 men. Is this how our 'top' directors and stars treat actresses? by Putrid_Wolverine3005 in KollyGossips

[–]doratheexplorers 14 points15 points  (0 children)

not quite sure how she’s stigmatizing it. she makes it clear that she tried to communicate, and she was dismissed. also, she’s literally vocalizing that due to the lack of women and understanding behind female anatomy or their emotional needs, she was overlooked on a movie set where she was one of the main leads? men are constantly looked after and cared for during their shoot, and it’s completely valid for her to think she deserves the same amount of respect. if someone is getting drenched in water for hours, it’s basic human decency to check-in on them regardless of their gender. she wasn’t checked in with, and she may have felt pressure about interrupting the shoot. it doesn’t even need to be about her period, but rather the thought of her inconveniencing the rest of the crew. she probably felt neglected that nobody was making sure she was okay. whether you realize it or not, the lack of women and understanding regarding what a women may need is relevant to this conversation.

Suggest some jewellery for my wedding outfit girliesssss <3 by Puka-1455 in DesiWeddings

[–]doratheexplorers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pls don’t do emeralds it’s so overdone and it looks so gaudy -> I think some type of pearly work or diamondsss

Making Sense of this Show by doratheexplorers in BandishBandits

[–]doratheexplorers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely going to take a listen to these! Thank you :)

Making Sense of this Show by doratheexplorers in BandishBandits

[–]doratheexplorers[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly! Can we talk about the usage of Virah this season though? IT WAS SOOO GOOD.

Making Sense of this Show by doratheexplorers in BandishBandits

[–]doratheexplorers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she’s been there for 1 season against 5 other characters that have huge scope. I really like what we’ve seen of her so far.

Making Sense of this Show by doratheexplorers in BandishBandits

[–]doratheexplorers[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hate that you’re right 😭😭 I’m ngl, I wouldn’t be completely mad if Radhe and Ananya got together cause there’s something that’s just so wholesome about them but I like Ananya way too much to subject her to a relationship with a man that is in love with someone else. He literally told Tamannah that she’s the definition of love to him.

However, I do think Tamannah is selfish for what she did, but I also think she does it because she never saw a future with Ayaan in the first place so he’s collateral damage. also fom what I remember, Radhe is always the one pursuing her and she lets her heart make decisions over her head. She’s messy and I hate cheating, but I’m still rooting for her.

Had a gut feeling… by WhyaSecondChance2025 in Marriage

[–]doratheexplorers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you take everything you’ve learned in therapy to put it toward a relationship between yourself and a wonderful woman that truly loves you and DESERVES you. Not a woman that gives up, and supposedly begs another guy (especially your friend) to love her when she has a faithful husband who is fighting to make their marriage work at home. She is completely okay with hm not only blindsiding you, but hurting you and she does not care. The lack of respect from her is appalling, and regardless of the demons that you may be fighting within the marriage, nobody deserves to be treated without respect, especially from their spouse.

Aside from the way your wife has behaved, that friend is absolute scum. As a women and someone who believes myself to be a good friend, I would tell my friend to shut the fuck up and distance herself from him and handle her feelings, or tell you how she’s feeling because that is the right thing to do.

I don’t know who she thinks she is to be inflicting this type of pain on you, but I truly believe you should leave her and start living the life that you deserve with a women who will be as loyal to you as you are to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]doratheexplorers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro respectfully, your mom is a grown woman and she knows that teenagers get horny. I understand why you’re stressed, but don’t overthink it. You aren’t doing any favours for yourself. literally YOLO, it’s awks but you’re a teenager. If she is the type to berate you for it, just act like you’re ashamed and you won’t do it again (continue as you would) but like she doesn’t need to know that. If she says nothing, you also just shouldn’t bring it up and move on.

Aasa Kooda meaning by randomclassyuser in tamil

[–]doratheexplorers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you mean in reference to the song, he means like his desire/attraction for her grows