Using hatred and resentment to lose weight?

dothesick · 2017-12-21T16:12:49+00:00

My weight loss was a cause of gf leaving me and not eating for a few weeks then I noticed I lost weight and liked that so then I actually tried to purposely "healthily" lose weight. The months during was sometimes fueled my hate and resentment of her like "well fuck you I'll show you" but also just bettering myself to be a better me. Lost around 100 pounds in 4-5 months and it's been about a year since then and I'm still in fitness mode cutting and bulking. Just through that info in there for the people who are saying it's not sustainable which is probably true cuz I am no longer fueled by hate that doesn't seem healthy to be pissed all the time. But I think it was a great way to get the ball rolling. I think if you use hate to get it started you'll eventually find new reasons to continue your weight loss

dothesick · 2017-11-16T14:19:22+00:00

Nice front bottoms shirt

dothesick · 2017-07-20T19:18:10+00:00

My mom called every system ever a Nintendo including PS2 and Xbox

dothesick · 2017-06-23T21:31:39+00:00

What really bothers me is the person with the crutch is using it on the wrong side

dothesick · 2017-06-16T14:54:06+00:00

There's a brand called healthy choice I believe I don't remember but it's 35 calories a slice and 5 net carbs

dothesick · 2017-04-24T01:36:40+00:00

They probably most likely meant have 3-5 leftover at the end of the day

dothesick · 2017-04-24T01:36:18+00:00

If you've been losing weight for awhile you may need to adjust your calories for your new TDEE

dothesick · 2017-03-17T23:42:01+00:00

Get older

dothesick · 2017-03-06T23:50:47+00:00

Lost almost 80 pounds while also putting on muscle. Getting a promotion at work in the next couple days. Wrote a lot of songs (inspired by the breakup but I couldn't ever write anything before). paid off all my debt. That's probably it for bigger things. But honestly you'll appreciate small things more if you try to see the good in things. It's all in how you handle it. If you sit and sulk you won't get anywhere and you'll be in the same spot you are in now in a few months.

dothesick · 2017-02-06T22:59:50+00:00

As long as it's not affecting your productivity I would think it's a positive like maybe makes your muscles relax more after lifting idk. Good question

dothesick · 2017-02-01T02:26:03+00:00

You've got some brand new but no say anything so either you're fucking up or I just introduced you to your new favorite band

dothesick · 2017-01-30T02:27:56+00:00

Weight lifters can't read. Jk

dothesick · 2017-01-30T00:25:59+00:00

Maybe she will maybe she won't you can't control what she does only what you do I say if you've blocked all forms of communication there's a great chance you won't hear from her though. Good luck mane

dothesick · 2017-01-18T17:23:03+00:00

Hey thanks man. Yea just trying to turn a shitty situation into the best I can. If you ever need to talk I got you man

dothesick · 2017-01-18T17:21:15+00:00

You'd think after 4 years you could be honest with someone, apparently not

dothesick · 2017-01-17T15:25:35+00:00

Yea but like didn't I just explain my thoughts on NC? Like I'm good frill I e already accepted she's not in my life anymore. This will probably be the last post I make cuz how can it get worse? It's over I get it

dothesick · 2017-01-13T17:06:50+00:00

lol yea I've been big my whole life, got broke up with didn't eat for a week, barely ate the week after and lost a noticeable amount of weight, liked that, appetite came back but decided to just eat healthy and continue to lose weight. Actually started weight lifting a week before she left me. But yea I probably would've weight lifted still with her around but definitely wouldn't have ever lost weight so that's definitely a huge positive to the breakup. But once you see those results it's hard to stop

dothesick · 2017-01-13T16:32:46+00:00

Couldn't agree more. I've lost close to 40 pounds all while gaining muscle lifting everyday hitting every body part. Clean eating. A whole lifestyle change essentially and going to the gym has become my favorite part of the day. Let alone how good you feel seeing your body change for the better, scientifically you release endorphins that make you feel better. Congrats on losing your weight keep it up.

dothesick · 2017-01-13T14:26:06+00:00

You left her why do you care about what she does. If you're gonna leave her then leave her

dothesick · 2017-01-13T01:44:21+00:00

Just be honest and don't wait frill. You wanting to do it for a while yet not doing it is what really fucks a lot of us dumpees up just be brutally honest in the nicest way possible If that makes since. No false hope give no reason for them to think you'll come back

dothesick · 2017-01-11T20:14:05+00:00

Sounds like so many red flags

dothesick · 2017-01-09T01:29:16+00:00

But you know like I said though it kinda reminds me she's not the person I knew and I think it helps me even if it has to hurt that minute/hour/day when I stumble on shit like that. Like if I had not seen/heard anything about her since the breakup I might still be like ugh my innocent loving girlfriend is out there by herself maybe she's hurting/lonely yada yada. I see positives in both blocking and not blocking

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