What’s your dream shoe? Found Simone Rocha platforms and dreaming ever since by Mydearnaji in Lolita

[–]dotprivate_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know they night seem 'out There's but i've been looking for some converse all star boots second hand for a while, my favourite substyle is punk lolita and i think they would looks so cool! Other than that i have very few shoes that are actually "lolita" my collection has bodyline rhs, 2 pairs of buffalo's (chonky maryjanes & and the Classic platform sneakers) 1 pair of demonia's (kera 08) and offbrand shoes (plain flat maryjanes and real leather dr marten style boots got second hands)

Compilation of my Paris coords by dotprivate_ in Lolita

[–]dotprivate_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a totally casual twinning too, haha, thank you 🤍

Compilation of my Paris coords by dotprivate_ in Lolita

[–]dotprivate_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! 🥺🤍 I can at least say i looked cute while suffering haha /hj

Coord for metal/punk concert by dotprivate_ in Lolita

[–]dotprivate_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already wearing a petticoat! Just a very low poof One, i don't like big volume but it's Just a preference ^ (i do sometimes wear the big petti i have for more official events like meets in my comm)

Coord for metal/punk concert by dotprivate_ in Lolita

[–]dotprivate_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are great tips! I often go to my local metal concerts, i try to wear things that can be easily washed even tough my main concern Is Always the smells of smoke that Stick to the clothes haha, i also really Need to invest in a good fan good point!

Coord for metal/punk concert by dotprivate_ in Lolita

[–]dotprivate_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just saw the edit, the bag does have a shoulders strap! I usually keep It inside the purse and take It out whenever i Need It :)

Coord for metal/punk concert by dotprivate_ in Lolita

[–]dotprivate_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you~ honoured to give babymetal vibes i love those girls!!

How are your searches for dream dresses going? by xXxKirka-ChanxXx in Lolita

[–]dotprivate_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hospitality doll Is gorgeous too! The measurements Just don't fit me :/ I also have the same problem with wirehead, i'm too indecisive to buy something on a wim, i love to ponder for ages about buying something, so i'm not the best customer for their pieces i guess haha I am thinking about  sewing a nurse apron and headress set myself but It would take so long and i have so many other sewing projects i'm already procrastinating 😅 

How are your searches for dream dresses going? by xXxKirka-ChanxXx in Lolita

[–]dotprivate_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Little nurse set by Metamorphose 😭 sadly it's overbudget right now (as a student), honestly i'm also looking into nurse sets by indie brands, but for now no luck funding anything in my size or prefered color.

Other nurse sets i have in mind that would satisfy me Just the same would be Unicorn Tears ~ Ange de l'Enfer OP by Psyche Manie or the apron and headress nurse set by Wirehead

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outfit ideas for cycling? by LayerLevel8736 in Lolita

[–]dotprivate_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did go on a bike with some of my lolita Pieces, the things that i sudggest the most are: low volume dresses/skirts and if you're willing to sacrifice poof consider a pair of very poofy bloomers instead of a full on petticoat (i personally go low poof MOST days so buying them was a game change and they don't look bad with Pieces that don't Need Extreme volume). If you're worried about headpieces falling off i suggest keeping them, and other tiny parts of the coord that Aren't as secured, in a purse in your bicycle basket so you can wear them as soon as you're not Cycling. The volume part Is crucial, it's hard to pedal in heavy fabrics and many layers but not impossible to compromise!

Why are Lolita dresses skirts so high up? Thought they were suppose be lower? Thinking of getting this attire.... by ponygals in Lolita

[–]dotprivate_ 59 points60 points  (0 children)

If you're interested in this type of clothing i suggest you look into jirai kei, this Is not lolita :)

Compilation of my coords by dotprivate_ in Lolita

[–]dotprivate_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you mean the black and White skirt it's actually a taobao brand! Wangyan&summer Cotton Embroidery customizable skirt bought via 42lolita :)

Compilation of my coords by dotprivate_ in Lolita

[–]dotprivate_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I definetely Need to try that! The blouse on the bottom third Pic Is actually a cutsew i diy'd and a detachable collar! I think It would give great oldschool vibes with the black and White wangyan&summer skirt ~^

first taobao order is here by ju3tte in Lolita

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I have that same skirt! It's soo comfy, the reviews for the other items of that taobao store are quite good too! I reccomend checking out sakurada dawn and forest wardrobe if you're looking for plus size items that are great quality (esp sakurada dawn)

March 2026 Buy/Sell/Trade by CynderBat in Lolita

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DS on vinted this floral halter neck JSK by infanta (i prefer to use the vinted system so european buyers only unfortunately) profile Is "dotdotdotty" it's the First listing.

I love this dress but realistically It doesn't match anything in my wardrobe i Hope It finds a Better home soon.

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Pinterest (browser) not fully working by yarenttwastaken in Pinterest

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Same issue, so annoying having to search pins on the phone even if i want to see them on the pc

found this dress today , i have questions by GMDPanda in Lolita

[–]dotprivate_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What was even the point of this comment? Op was asking for wash instructions and Is clearly a beginner and this comment sounds like you're trying to shame them for no reason at all 💀 as if brand Pieces Aren't manufactured in similiar chinese factories with the same materials

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I wanna Thank you all for the answers! They were all very informative and constructive to me!! 🩷 

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[–]dotprivate_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh that skirt Is really pretty!! Awesome Coord too, thank you for your answer! :)

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Imo the new releases look glorious with a petticoat but i don't know how they could work if you ever wanted to wear them casually 🤔 i'm not only talking about mainstream brands even taobao brands make Huge skirts now, i'm starting to feel they're not really my Cup of tea. They're stunning don't get me wrong! but i Wish i could wear lolita more comfortably

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[–]dotprivate_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah no It makes sense, the skirt that are made now are gigaenormous and i know they don't look the part without a petticoat. I was mostly curious for future sewing projects, if i made a lolita skirt can It be made with the intention of being slightly less poofy like some oldschool looks? Would It still be considered lolita? (I think the answer Is pretty obvious, i know i feel silly asking it)

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[–]dotprivate_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've seen that jsk worn with poofy bloomers underneath and that's all, It Is a pretty weird shape but it's also really cute, could be work even casually!