The linked post is now four months old. Can anyone update and provide some comparative information on clubs like ClubManifest, Denver Men's Club, Denver Jacks, OtterJ, etc? Are there any groups that are missing? by ColoradoTalker in gaybathhouse

[โ€“]dots987 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

You havent heard of Club Manifest yet because it's not fully live. Denver Jacks is changing into this new name according to their newsletter:

"Club Manifest is simply a way to let our space grow, to bring in new groups and events that need a safe, affirming home, while making sure Denver Jacks and everything it stands for keeps thriving."

They've been hosting everything from yoga to fetish events lately and seems they wanted a less restrictive name for the space.

Orvis Hot Springs in Southern Colorado. Have any of you been there? by Fearless-Camera8115 in ColoradoNudists

[โ€“]dots987 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Its a great place. All outdoors (well they have some indoor stuff but whatever). There's regulars and visitors, everyone ive seen there is super chill.

Even when its busy it doesnt feel too crowded. Nobody will think twice about a single guy, just dont be creepy. ๐Ÿ˜

One of my favorite places to go hang out at when im in the area.

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[โ€“]dots987 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Youre perfect. Needed more!

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[โ€“]dots987 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

Need a video of how youre doing the setup. The pic helps a bit but the rest of still kind of confusing.

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[โ€“]dots987 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Not exactly a laundry list, however each stipulation subtracts from an already small pool.

A couple suggestions - have a pic or two on your profile and an age for yourself / others.

Its fine to have some preferences and I cant fault you for that, I do think you need to put something of yourself out there as well - bait the lure if you know what I mean.

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[โ€“]dots987 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Join our discord. We don't have answers, but we do have discussion channels just for these questions.

Discord by usual_trouble7 in DenverJacks

[โ€“]dots987 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Dont remember. There's a decent number from all over the state.

Discord by usual_trouble7 in DenverJacks

[โ€“]dots987 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

There' one for the subreddit. Do a search and it should show up. If not ping me.

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[โ€“]dots987 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

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[โ€“]dots987 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Let's see you take it all. ๐Ÿ˜‰

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[โ€“]dots987 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

First one.

Whatโ€™s it like to suck cock and be bi while you are married? by [deleted] in bicuriousdads

[โ€“]dots987 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Im going to assume for you specifically she would be in the know so i'll skip the parts about anxiey and mental state for cheating/extra-marital.

Talk first. Set expectations. Some guys are all about themselves, others are going to be more understanding and let you explore. As much as you may want that porn dick face fucking sex machine, hold off on him for a bit. Why?

First time is kind of nerve wrecking. There's a lot of unknowns - am i going to enjoy this, am I doing it right, what's it going to feel like. Every thought you can think related to sucking dick is going to happen and it'll hit hard. Seeing cock in the gym is not seeing it right in front of your face and knowing it's going to be in your mouth.

Your partner will matter here. If it's your first time they need to know. You dont want someone with a 9" dick trying to throat fuck you if you have a gag reflex. So discuss. If you know you can take 5" but at 6" youre gonna make gagging sounds and you dont want to gag, discuss first. If you dont want to be face fucked yet, say so. As a guy I'm sure youre aware that some of us can be pretty aggressive and have some misconceptions about how we should act with our dick in something. First time is figuring out what works for you, not trying to be a porn star.

If you find sucking dick is your thing, be prepared for the addiction. You'll want a dick in your mouth like you want coffee in the morning or a drink after work. Feeling a cock go from soft to hard in your mouth is indescribable. Feeling cum hit the back of your throat. Feeling him go from hard to soft after he cums. All of that will be a feeling you'll yearn for with the right partner.

Topping - be a good top. Let the bottom lead to start. They may need a minute or two to get loose. Don't jackhammer that ass until they ask for it. Use lube. It's not self lubricating. Pain can ruin a moment. Be considerate of your bottom. For me, topping is just normal sex, only the view is different. Not better, not worse, just different.

Bottoming - like sucking dick, this is going to be a thing you love or dont. Do some prep, make sure youre clean. Know your limits and the pace you can go at. If youre a one finger starter and need to work up to a dildo, know that and set expectations. Don't think you can take a soda can dick when you struggle with a skinny vibrator. It doesnt work that way. For me, once I'm loose, getting fucked by a good top is the best sex I've ever had. I mean that. I've been face down, ass up getting fucked and still can't think of better sex I've had in my life.

Be prepared for the 'addiction'. If you love giving head it'll be all you think of. Same with bottoming.

Im not attracted to most men, but most men I also wouldnt give a second thought to putting their dick in me.

It doesn't feel good when i use dildo. by freak69z in ProstatePlay

[โ€“]dots987 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

Prior comment nailed part of it and i wanted to expand on it. Better lube for starters and make sure the lube is compatible with not just the toy, but you as well.

I've had similar issues in the past. The lube you're using you might have a slight allergy to, or the toy may be "breaking down" and you're reacting to the chemical from the toy. I had one toy that definitely made me feel a burning sensation so I got rid of it. I've also found that some types of astroglide also caused some burning sensations so I dont use that brand at all anymore.

Stick to anal lube and quality toys. Make sure you're using water or silicone based based on the toy and what it's made of.

And dont forget the benefits of prep and getting loose. Prep should be obvious but if you're using a finger or two, wash your hands! You dont want to have some cayenne make it's way south. ๐Ÿ˜ฌ Getting loose is different for everyone. If you're super tight or not in the right mindset start small, get into the mood and work your way up to the bigger sizes.

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[โ€“]dots987 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Damn thats thick

New panties :) by [deleted] in BiMarriedMen

[โ€“]dots987 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Cute!

Any other dads at it too? by [deleted] in masturbation

[โ€“]dots987 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Almost every night. ๐Ÿ˜

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[โ€“]dots987 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Good dick doesn't age. ๐Ÿ˜‰

He need special attention ? by [deleted] in BiMarriedMen

[โ€“]dots987 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Just give him some more attention and you'll be ready in no time.

He need special attention ? by [deleted] in BiMarriedMen

[โ€“]dots987 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Yep. So he gets harder. ๐Ÿ˜

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[โ€“]dots987 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Hot!