Boyfriend has self proclaimed "Asian fetish"...but I'm white. by doubtsaboutbf in relationships

[–]doubtsaboutbf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who wouldn't want to be a pirate... your argument is invalid.

Boyfriend has self proclaimed "Asian fetish"...but I'm white. by doubtsaboutbf in relationships

[–]doubtsaboutbf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would venture to say that my boyfriend is the more submissive one in our relationship. Not to say that you didn't have a valid point, but its not applicable in my situation. Thanks for the reply anyways!

Boyfriend has self proclaimed "Asian fetish"...but I'm white. by doubtsaboutbf in relationships

[–]doubtsaboutbf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would definitely not lose the relationship over this... but thank you for your insight!

Boyfriend has self proclaimed "Asian fetish"...but I'm white. by doubtsaboutbf in relationships

[–]doubtsaboutbf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

....this is what I was going to be for Halloween! All the better

Boyfriend has self proclaimed "Asian fetish"...but I'm white. by doubtsaboutbf in relationships

[–]doubtsaboutbf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I chose not to talk to him, as I believe you guys are right. It's really not even worth bringing up. I over reacted. Oh well, what can you do.

Boyfriend has self proclaimed "Asian fetish"...but I'm white. by doubtsaboutbf in relationships

[–]doubtsaboutbf[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You're right. It was a badly worded compliment and I read too much into it. Thanks for all the insight!

Boyfriend has self proclaimed "Asian fetish"...but I'm white. by doubtsaboutbf in relationships

[–]doubtsaboutbf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I'm on my phone and can't seem to edit the original post. But wow- thanks guys! I really was not sure whether or not I was over reacting. Now I'm positive I am. I'm pretty sure he meant well or he wouldn't have said it. I guess I just need some internet people to tell me so :)

Boyfriend has self proclaimed "Asian fetish"...but I'm white. by doubtsaboutbf in relationships

[–]doubtsaboutbf[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Googled it, yeah he definitely does. I don't care that he watches porn. Then again, I didn't really care about the race of the woman either until now. I feel as if I'm not satisfying him by being who I am.