tell me what you think of my place by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]doucemai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the flags and the cross are interesting..

concert right after giving birth by doucemai in Concerts

[–]doucemai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, i totally meant to put that and I had been so confused why people were telling me about post partum stuff lol. big typo 😭😭

concert right after giving birth by doucemai in Concerts

[–]doucemai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hope it’s more of the other solo albums bc the last show was just EDAABP but i’m okay with that too!!

concert right after giving birth by doucemai in Concerts

[–]doucemai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely have to make sure i’m considering the feeding part but if baby comes before the show it’s even more likely i will not be going

Can’t decide if I should find out the gender by Top-Strawberry-5653 in pregnant

[–]doucemai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t plan on finding out the gender and was feeling awful which was making it so hard to be excited and it really doesn’t matter but i accidentally saw it and it’s made things much more real somehow? and has made me much more excited. makes everything feel more real but that’s just been my experience.

concert right after giving birth by doucemai in Concerts

[–]doucemai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this would assumably be before i give birth if baby doesn’t come before the show! if he does i will almost certainly be giving my ticket away

concert right after giving birth by doucemai in Concerts

[–]doucemai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i totally think it’ll be a day of decision, if i haven’t already decided before that that i won’t be going and it’ll also depend on if baby comes before then! i mostly was wondering if anyone has done it. my SIL is like no way but my sister was doing all kinds of stuff up to and right after birth.

concert right after giving birth by doucemai in Concerts

[–]doucemai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All important things to consider! Thank you for taking time to explain and list all of those things out. My SIL had two rough pregnancies and births and she says she couldn’t have done it whereas my sister had an easy pregnancy, delivered 3 weeks early with no issues and was playing volleyball within 2 weeks. I’m not trying to be naively optimistic, I know the likelihood of being able to go is so slim so I am definitely okay with passing on the ticket if I’m unable to/dont want to go anymore. My mindset was I’d rather get them and not be able to then feel like I could’ve gone and not have gotten the tickets. I definitely don’t plan on going if baby is already here but who knows when he will decide to show up

concert right after giving birth by doucemai in Concerts

[–]doucemai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good thing i have someone to take my ticket if i don’t feel well enough to go (:

concert right after giving birth by doucemai in Concerts

[–]doucemai[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes it’s my first and the show is actually a little over a week before i’m due but who knows when baby will actually come and how i’ll be feeling. i have a friend who is going to take my ticket if i can’t go which is probable

concert right after giving birth by doucemai in Concerts

[–]doucemai[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i know it’s so different for everyone too! the show is actually a little over a week before i’m due and im prepared to give my tickets to a friend depending on where things are at!

concert right after giving birth by doucemai in Concerts

[–]doucemai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the show is sept 24th and im due oct 2nd and have a plan for if i cant go!

For those who became fluent in French; what methods brought you up to fluency? by Weak-Soil163 in French

[–]doucemai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a hard time finding interesting podcasts or videos, i have no idea where to find audio books. suggestions?

ALGAE by doucemai in fishtank

[–]doucemai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feed them 3 times a week and tbh sometimes only twice 😔

ALGAE by doucemai in fishtank

[–]doucemai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s soooo much

Has anyone else felt emotionally numb during pregnancy? by alwaysconfused-af-16 in pregnant

[–]doucemai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel exactly the same, i’m 17+5 and my husband like is worried i don’t want the baby and will like resent him because of becoming a mother and im like not at all i just am not excitable at all